{"id":3099,"date":"2025-04-29T09:12:54","date_gmt":"2025-04-29T09:12:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thementoringproject.com\/?post_type=field_guides&p=3099"},"modified":"2026-05-09T09:25:41","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T09:25:41","slug":"act-like-men","status":"publish","type":"field_guides","link":"https:\/\/thementoringproject.com\/fa\/field-guide\/act-like-men\/","title":{"rendered":"#12 Man of God: What Does It Mean to Be One?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Part 1: Principles for Faithfulness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The Bible Calls Men to Be Leaders<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Most of what we have said is equally true for women as for men, but it is so important that we cannot skip it. But when we look for the distinct calling given to the man, God\u2019s creation order highlights our first principle: the masculine calling to lordship. In short, the Lord invests men with headship in their relationships, involving both authority and responsibility \u2014 the calling of the head of the household. God is, of course, the high Lord over all people and things. But men are called to serve God by exercising lordship in the spheres of responsibility he places under us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With this in mind, one of the best summaries of Biblical manhood occurs in a comment the Lord made about the patriarch Abraham:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For I have chosen him, that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the Lord by doing righteousness and justice, so that the Lord may bring to Abraham what
he has promised him (Gen. 18:19).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Notice that God expected Abraham to exercise authority over his children and household, which refers to everyone under Abraham\u2019s charge. Abraham was to lead in such a way as to ensure that his family kept \u201cthe way of the Lord\u201d \u2014 that is, lived according to God\u2019s Word. Notice as well, that God says it is through Abraham\u2019s Godly leadership \u201cthat the Lord may bring to Abraham what he has promised him.\u201d Here is a statement that highlights the vital importance of spiritual leadership.
If Christian men do not lead their families, the blessings that God has promised to believers are
not likely to be realized. Of course, everyone is called to keep God\u2019s ways in faith and obedience. But the man is distinct in that he is charged to lead and command: he is given lordship by God \u2014
a clear picture of servant leadership marked by responsibility, not tyranny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything in Genesis 2, which focuses on life as God designed it, points to the leadership that
God entrusted to the man. For instance, when God made a covenant with mankind, he gave the command to Adam and not to Eve (Gen. 2:16\u201317). Why didn\u2019t God give his command to both Adam and Eve? The answer is that God commanded Adam, and it was Adam\u2019s responsibility to make it known to Eve. Similarly, it was the man who gave names to the various species of animals (Gen. 2:19). If you have the right to name something, you are its lord! Adam even gave the woman her name, Eve, as an expression of God\u2019s call for men to serve him through lordship (Gen. 3:20).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exercising Godly lordship requires men to accept responsibility and exercise authority. We find
a good example in Ruth 2, when a landowner named Boaz noticed a poor but virtuous woman gleaning in his fields. Boaz realized that women in her position were vulnerable and that not
all of his men could be trusted. He made inquiries about Ruth and learned that she had a noble character. So he not only permitted her to glean in his fields but also charged his more reckless men not to bother her, and then made provision for her to have something to drink when she got thirsty (Ruth 2:9). This is Godly lordship! The man accepted responsibility and exercised authority to ensure that a needy woman was cared for and protected. Boaz had learned the priorities of mercy and righteousness through God\u2019s Word \u2014 priorities that define the role of a husband in the Bible and the wider calling of men to lead with strength and care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Boaz exercised his God-given lordship to govern his household so that God\u2019s will was done, the Lord was glorified, and people were cared for. This is an excellent picture of the kind of lordship
to which God calls all men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What happens when men do not lead? We have already seen God\u2019s comment that his promises to Abraham would not come to pass if Abraham did not command his household. Another example
is the failure of King David when it came to his family. David is one of the great heroes of the Bible. He slew Goliath and was anointed by God to be king over Israel. He led God\u2019s people in battle, established Jerusalem as Israel\u2019s capital, and wrote a large portion of the book of Psalms. Yet David was an abject failure in his family, and this neglect of leadership would not only ruin David\u2019s life but also undo much of the good he accomplished for the people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Consider the sons of David, who are a roster of famous scoundrels. The first one we meet is Amnon. This son was so infatuated with his beautiful half-sister Tamar that he sexually assaulted her and then publicly humiliated her. As you read 2 Samuel 13, it is obvious that David should have known his daughter\u2019s peril and intervened to protect her \u2014 a tragic failure in the role of a father. When David did nothing about this crime, Tamar\u2019s full brother Absalom took matters into his own hands and slew his brother Amnon, throwing the royal household into turmoil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Again, David did not lead, but allowed Absalom merely to go into exile. From this exile, Absalom plotted a rebellion that almost overthrew David\u2019s kingdom and required a great battle in which many soldiers died (see 2 Sam. 13\u201319). Even at the end of his life, David had another rotten son, Adonijah, who tried to usurp the throne from David\u2019s heir Solomon
(1 Kings 1).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad truth is that the reign of David ended in turmoil and chaos because he would not lead his household. How do we explain such foolish behavior? The Bible gives two explanations. First Kings 1:6 includes a note about David\u2019s indulgence of Adonijah, which we can assume was true for all of his sons: David \u201chad never at any time displeased him by asking, \u2018Why have you done thus and so?\u2019\u201d David did not take responsibility for his sons and he did not exercise authority over them.
He did not find out what was happening in their lives (and more importantly in their hearts) and
he did not correct or discipline them. Perhaps David was too busy fighting wars and writing songs to do his job as a father. His failure highlights the importance of men exercising lordship, especially in the home \u2014 a sober reminder of the weighty calling of Biblical fatherhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But there is another, more penetrating answer to David\u2019s failure of leadership. We go back before all these troubles started and discover David\u2019s great sin with Bathsheba. Second Samuel 11 provides a warning to Christian men who are tempted to shirk their duties at work and in the home. Israel\u2019s army was fighting a war, but David stayed home to relax. With his guard down, he was easy prey to the temptation of lust when he saw the beautiful woman bathing. In a short succession that marks his fall as a man, David called for Bathsheba and took her, even though he knew that she was the wife of one of his best soldiers. When Bathsheba got pregnant, David went so far as to conspire in her husband\u2019s death so that he could marry her and cover up his sin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you notice that the sins David\u2019s sons later committed followed in the pattern of sins they had seen him commit? David assaulted a beautiful girl, and so did his son Amnon. David conspired against a righteous man and covered it up, laying the path that Absalom later would walk. What is the lesson? This is a sobering example of the sins of the father being echoed in the next generation. Christian men must lead. And our leadership begins with the example of faith and Godliness that we set. If we sin \u2014 and we do \u2014 then we must repent and confess our sin, taking steps to change our evil habits. If we do not set an example of Godliness, our calling to lordship in service to God
is likely to end up a sham. And, just like King David, God\u2019s blessing will be lost because the man who was called to lead failed to do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before we move on, let\u2019s consider some of the things that a Godly man does to lead his wife and family \u2014 central expressions of husband responsibility and the role of a father:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 He sets an example by believing in Jesus Christ and living sincerely according to God\u2019s Word.
\u2013 He ensures that his family attends a faithful church where God\u2019s Word is accurately taught.
\u2013 <\/strong>He reads his Bible, prays, and calls others in his household to do likewise.
\u2013 He takes responsibility for his wife and children, pays attention to them, and exercises his God-given authority to encourage them to live rightly \u2014 a practical picture of how to be a good father and how to be a good husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Bible Calls Men to Be Nurturers<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

The Bible is such a valuable resource to men. God\u2019s Word not only tells us what we are to do but also gives us a pattern for how we are to serve and lead as husbands, fathers, and leaders outside the home. We noted earlier the value of what Scripture says about God\u2019s design for men in creation. In fact, one of the most informative statements about Biblical manhood occurs in Genesis 2:15, which I have elsewhere referred to as the Masculine Mandate.1<\/sup> This verse sets a pattern that we see all through the Bible, giving men two tasks that enable them to succeed as Christian leaders: \u201cThe Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it\u201d (Gen. 2:15).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The garden of Eden was a world of covenant relationships that the Lord had designed for mankind. Included was marriage, the family, the church, and even the workplace. The Lord put Adam into this garden and also into the relationships that God had designed for life there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The two words I want to focus on are \u201cwork\u201d and \u201ckeep.\u201d Here is how<\/em> to be a Biblical man. What<\/em> is God-obedient lordship? The how<\/em> is work and keep, two words that set a trajectory for masculinity throughout the Bible. The second of these \u2014 keep \u2014 means to guard and protect. The first of these commands is work, which means to invest one\u2019s labor to produce a good harvest. Here is the second Biblical principle for manhood. The first is that the man is called to lordship. The second is that God\u2019s Word calls men to be nurturers \u2014 a core aspect of the Biblical Role of a Husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Biblical idea of working \u2014 meaning to cultivate and nurture \u2014 may be the aspect of masculinity that is most out of sync with traditional ideas in our society. Men are often seen as distant or emotionally reserved. Yet Scripture calls men to strength expressed through care and presence, echoing the charge to act like men and to be strong and courageous (cf. 1 Corinthians 16:13).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adam\u2019s fingers were to be brown with the soil of the garden; likewise, the hands of Christian men are to be brown with the soil of their wives\u2019 and children\u2019s hearts. Whether a man is at work, talking to someone at church, or leading in his home, he is to take a personal interest and act in ways designed to bring blessing and cause growth. This nurturing strength is central to true spiritual leadership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A husband is called to nurture his wife emotionally and spiritually. Likewise, a father is called to
be intentional about plowing up and planting in the hearts of his children. Few things are more injurious to a child than emotional distance from his or her father. There is a reason Scripture places such weight on Biblical fatherhood. God has given men the primary calling of emotional and spiritual nurture, and many fail to do it well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When a Christian man \u201cworks\u201d in the lives of others \u2014 nurturing and building up their hearts like Adam in the garden \u2014 the beneficiaries delight in his attention and grow under the influence of his love. This is not a weakness. It is the strength of a man of God living out God\u2019s design.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another way the Bible describes a man\u2019s calling to work and nurture is through the image of a shepherd with his sheep. Psalm 23 talks about a shepherd who is totally invested in the well-being of his lambs, leading them, serving them, and providing for all their needs. This image reflects servant leadership expressed through faithful care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He makes me lie down in green pastures.
He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul.
He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name\u2019s sake.
(Ps. 23:1\u20133)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is the servant lordship to which God calls men in the work of nurturing other people, especially our wives and children. It takes effort, attention, and passionate concern and models true spiritual leadership. Of course, these words were ultimately penned about Jesus Christ, the Good Shepherd who lays down his life for his sheep (John 10:11). It is the man who can say these words about Jesus, the shepherd of our souls who leads us to eternal life, who has a heart for shepherding other people. Jesus is the greatest example of true manhood and the ultimate man of God, laying down his life for the nurture and salvation of the people he loves so much, even dying on the cross to deliver them from sin and define Biblical manhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As we close our discussion of this vital matter of working \u2014 nurturing and leading the hearts of those we love \u2014 let me give some questions to diagnose how we are doing (and how we want to do!):<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Am I close to my wife and children (or others in important relationships), so that I know and understand their hearts and live faithfully in the role of a father?
\u2013 Do the people under my care feel that I want to know them, and do I speak to them in a way that encourages and teaches them, reflecting healthy spiritual leadership?
\u2013 Do my wife and children (or others) feel that they know me? Have I shared my heart with them? Do they feel that they can join me in the things that I am passionate about? Do they feel that I am passionate about them and their blessing, honoring my husband responsibility?
\u2013 As I look to the life of Jesus Christ in the Gospels, what things did he do to show that he cared, to connect with his disciples, and to lead them to spiritual growth that I experience and then imitate as a man of God?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Bible Calls Men to Be Protectors<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

The second part of the Masculine Mandate of Genesis 2:15 is to \u201ckeep,\u201d meaning that a man guards and protects what God has placed under his care. This is our third principle for Biblical manhood. When David thought about the Lord\u2019s shepherding care of his life, he not only spoke of the Lord leading him but also protecting him: \u201cEven though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me\u201d (Ps. 23:4). Likewise, the how<\/em> of male leadership involves not only nurturing and encouraging but also standing guard to keep people and things safe, exercising faithful spiritual leadership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another place in the Bible where we see both \u201cworking\u201d and \u201ckeeping\u201d\u2014 building up and making safe \u2014 is Nehemiah 4:17\u201318, when the men of Jerusalem were building the city\u2019s walls. Nehemiah had the men carry a shovel or trowel in one hand and a sword or spear in the other. This is Biblical manhood in action \u2014 strength paired with responsibility, provision paired with protection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just as the Lord is a great model as a shepherd in Psalm 23, the Lord speaks of his guardian care in Psalm 121. There, the Lord promises that he watches over his people: \u201cHe who keeps you will not slumber. Behold, he who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep\u201d (Ps. 121:5). The psalmist notes that \u201cThe Lord will keep you from all evil; he will keep your life\u201d (Ps. 121:7). God watches over us to protect us and correct us so that we do not go astray. Here is our example as men who keep what has been entrusted to our care as head of the household.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To be a man is to stand up and be counted on when there is danger or other evil. God does not desire men to stand by idly and allow harm or permit wickedness. Rather, we are called to keep others safe within all the covenant relationships we enter. In our families, our presence is to make our wives and children feel secure and at ease, fulfilling the role of a father. At church, we are to stand for truth and Godliness against worldliness and error. In society, we are to take our place as men who stand up against evil and defend what is right, living out the call to be strong and courageous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad reality, however, is that in many cases the greatest danger from which we need to protect our wives and children is our own sin. I remember counseling a man years ago whose marriage
was on the rocks. At one point, he boasted that if a man entered their home with a gun, he would protect his wife: \u201cI would take the bullet for her.\u201d But then, in a flash of insight, he admitted, \u201cActually, I am the man who enters my home and hurts my wife.\u201d We need to protect people under our care from our own anger, harsh words, self-centeredness, and neglect. This self-watchfulness
is essential to being a Godly husband and a faithful man of God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some questions for us to consider with respect to our manly calling to guard and protect:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Am I aware of the main threats to my wife and children? What am I doing about them?
\u2013 Does my wife (or others under my care) feel safe when I am present? What changes should I make to make sure that she does?
\u2013 What are my sins that cause harm to other people, especially in my family? Do I care enough about them to deal with my sinful habits? Am I habitually angry? Do I speak abusively or harshly?
If so, have I talked with my pastor about these things, seeking to change? Do I pray about these sins? What difference would it make to others if I were to repent of these harmful behaviors?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Bible Calls Men into God-Designed Relationships<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

What we have seen so far is the basic Biblical architecture for manhood. Men are called to serve and glorify God, exercising lordship in their relationships by \u201cworking and keeping,\u201d that is, nurturing and protecting. This vision reflects Biblical manhood<\/strong> shaped by obedience to God\u2019s design. All of these principles flow from the opening chapters of Genesis and are then reinforced throughout the Bible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Our final topic in this field guide will consider the contexts in which manhood is lived out, namely, the God-designed relationships found in the Bible. Remember when we saw that God \u201cput the man in the garden\u201d God had created (Gen. 2:8)? We can think of the garden as the covenant world of God\u2019s design in which men and women are to live and bear fruit to God\u2019s glory. Primary among these relationships are marriage and fatherhood, highlighting Biblical fatherhood<\/strong> and the role <\/strong>
of a father<\/strong>, though other relationships (such as work, friendships, and the church) are also important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have made applications to marriage and fatherhood, but let\u2019s focus in a bit more in the next part, especially on the calling of men as head of the household<\/strong> and the faithful role of a husband in the Bible<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Discassion & Reflection<\/em><\/strong>:<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
    \n
  1. Which part of this vision for manhood challenges the way you think about what it means to live out Biblical masculinity<\/strong>?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. In which of these areas do you need to grow most? Are any of them a strength for you?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    \u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Part 2: Biblical Manhood in Marriage<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Genesis 2:18 makes an important statement when the Lord observed, \u201cIt is not good for the man
    to be alone.\u201d Until now in the creation account everything has been so good! God created and then looked on his work and \u201csaw that it was good\u201d (Gen. 1:25). But now the Creator sees something
    that is not good \u2014 this must be a matter of great importance. The problem God observed was not a flaw in his design but something incomplete. God designed men and women to live together in the holy bond of marriage; this is why the Lord went on to say, \u201cI will make him a helper fit for him\u201d (Gen. 2:18). God created the woman not to be a competitor to man, but to be a complement to him, establishing the foundation for the Biblical Role of a Husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    This clear Biblical teaching shows that men are to desire to be married to a Godly wife. Unlike what is so common today, men are not to shy away from commitment, spending much of their lives \u201cplaying the field.\u201d Instead, a man is to settle down, make a commitment in a relationship with a woman, and start a family. This reflects the role of a husband in the Bible, marked by faithfulness, responsibility, and love. Obviously, there are exceptions when this does not happen, and I do not want to make men feel guilty if they have desired marriage and suffered discouragement. The point is that men are to be pro-marriage. We are to raise our sons with the expectation that they will
    be husbands, preferably sooner rather than later. Proverbs 18:22 sums up the Bible\u2019s perspective:
    \u201cHe who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    It is no secret that our generation finds marriage hard to pull off, primarily because we are determined to keep our sins and still expect success. Christian men, who have been forgiven of their sins and who seek to live by God\u2019s Word, should have confidence entering into marriage, so long as their wife is a committed Christian herself. This pursuit of faithfulness is central to how to
    be a good husband and to becoming a Godly husband. To marry a non-Christian woman is to be \u201cunequally yoked\u201d (2 Cor. 6:14). This metaphor compares two mismatched oxen yoked together so that they cannot pull as a team. The same is true of a marriage in which one partner is a Christian and the other is not. It is one thing to come to faith in Christ while married to an unbeliever, in which case we should pray for God to convert our wife while we serve and witness the Gospel.
    But it is quite another for a man who is already a Christian to marry an unbelieving woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    If we have found the Bible\u2019s basic teaching on manhood instructive, we will find these principles vitally important to Christian marriage. The man is to lead by nurturing and protecting. It turns
    out that this framework fits exactly what the Bible says about husbands in marriage, making this teaching essential for a happy home and faithful Biblical manhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Marital Lordship<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

    First, the Bible is crystal clear that a husband is to provide leadership to the marriage, spiritually and otherwise. This calling reflects intentional spiritual leadership and the God-given responsibility of the husband. You can see this emphasis in what the Lord teaches to Godly wives:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands (Eph. 5:22\u201324; see also 1 Pet. 3:1\u20136).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Our first response as men when we read this should be one of humility. God does not tell wives to submit to their husband\u2019s leadership because he is smarter, wiser, or more Godly\u2014in many cases, he is not! Instead, the reason for male headship in the marriage is God\u2019s design in creation. This establishes the husband as head of the household, not for domination, but for service. Men are designed to lead in a strong-but-gentle, confident-but-humble, Christ-like way, which lies at the heart of the Biblical Role of a Husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Male headship does not mean that the husband makes all the decisions about everything. Christ said that a Godly marriage will above all reflect unity: \u201cSo they are no longer two but one flesh\u201d (Matt. 19:6). A married couple should seek to come to agreement, and the husband should lead
    in this endeavor, fulfilling the role of a husband in the Bible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    For instance, a man and his wife should sit down together and talk through their financial goals.
    In many cases, the woman will have great input and may be better at managing money than her husband. But the husband should lead the financial decision-making, taking responsibility and applying Biblical principles about stewardship and generosity\u2014an important aspect of husband responsibility. A husband and wife should also decide together which church to attend, with the husband insisting that faithful Bible teaching be given priority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So it goes with every area of married life: the husband is to lead with an aim toward Godly unity.
    All these decisions will require prayer, so leadership should always be exercised with humility, joint prayer, and obedience to God\u2019s Word, reflecting the character of a Godly husband and a faithful man of God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    When we think about \u201cbeing in charge,\u201d the same passage that tells our wives to submit also calls men to Christ-like, servant leadership: \u201cHusbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her\u201d (Ephesians 5:25). How did Jesus love his church? By dying for her! Likewise, a husband should put his wife\u2019s interests first, especially her spiritual and emotional needs. When a husband \u201cputs his foot down,\u201d calling his wife to submit, it usually should be to obey Biblical teaching or wisdom, or for the man to make a sacrifice on her behalf. A husband who leads in marriage with Christ-like self-sacrifice will not often find his wife struggling with submission to his headship\u2014this is central to the Biblical Role of a Husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Marital Nurture<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

    Men are not only to lead their wives but also to \u201cwork\u201d them. That is, they are to nurture them in a way that is analogous to Adam\u2019s cultivation of the first garden. This means that a husband is to have a plan for spiritually and emotionally blessing his wife. He is to consider her growth and well-being one of his most important jobs in life. He does not just \u201cmarry her and then move on\u201d to other priorities. Rather, he devotes himself all of his married days to building up his wife and encouraging her blessing\u2014an essential part of how to be a good husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    You see this priority in what the Apostle Paul went on to say about marriage in Ephesians 5:28\u201330:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Paul means that just as a man has an instinct for meeting his own body\u2019s needs \u2014 he eats when hungry, drinks when thirsty, and sleeps when tired \u2014 a husband should develop a reflex response to the needs of his wife. This attentiveness reflects a healthy husband responsibility and faithful spiritual leadership. This will inevitably come through in how a husband talks with his wife. As a pastor, I have known husbands who speak to their wives the same way they talk to guys in the football locker room. Don\u2019t do this. She is your wife! Men should think before we speak, above all to our wives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The man\u2019s call to nurture his wife means that he needs to know what is going on in her heart. And since women are complete mysteries to men, the only way to learn this is to ask her. Just try this: approach your wife, tell her you want to be devoted to her nurture, and ask her what is in her heart. You can be sure she will tell you what makes her anxious, what she is afraid of, what makes her feel beautiful and cherished, and what she prays and longs for. This is useful information for a nurturing husband. A good practice is to pray with your wife every morning, asking her sincerely how you can pray for her. Over time, she will open her heart more and more, trusting your loving ministry, and your nurturing care will bind the two of you together in marital love, reflecting the character of a Godly husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So far, I have mentioned the Apostle Paul\u2019s teaching on marriage in Ephesians 5. But the Apostle Peter also has valuable teaching in 1 Peter 3:7. This is, in my view, the single most valuable verse for husbands:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    When Peter says we should \u201clive with\u201d our wives, he uses a verb that elsewhere means to \u201ccommune.\u201d In other words, we are to share our lives with our wives, not just intersect at meal
    times and for sex. When he says that we are to be \u201cunderstanding,\u201d he means that we are to have knowledge about her, primarily the things of her heart. \u201cShowing honor\u201d means to cherish our wives\u2014to say and do things that communicate that she is loved and valued. And we are to remember that our wives are God\u2019s beloved daughters \u2014 and, yes, if we neglect our wives,
    God says he will neglect our prayers. This sober truth shapes the role of a husband in the Bible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    My experience has shown that this principle of \u201cworking\u201d \u2014 that is, nurturing our wives emotionally and spiritually \u2014 is often the missing ingredient in Christian marriages. Men simply do not know that they are supposed to cultivate the hearts of their wives. So for a Christian man to apologize to his wife for neglecting this calling and then to start doing it sincerely (and with her help) will often revolutionize the marriage and bind the couple together as never before \u2014 an expression of mature Biblical manhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Marital Protection<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

    The second part of \u201cwork and keep\u201d is for a man to protect his wife in marriage. In short, the way a husband acts and talks around his wife should make her feel safe. This, of course, includes physical safety, which a man should ensure for his wife. Christian men especially must protect their wives from their most obvious and harmful sins. For instance, too many men display explosive anger or speak harshly to their wives, undermining the trust and security of the marital bond. Whether it is anger or some other sinful tendency, we protect our wives by turning to God\u2019s grace to replace vices with Godly virtues \u2014 this is part of being strong and courageous in holiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u201cKeeping\u201d also includes relationship protection and security, which is so important for a healthy marriage. For example, a wife should feel safe with respect to other women. A Godly man will
    not make comments about how attractive another woman is, and she will not see him gawking
    at another woman. Paul\u2019s teaching on sexual purity applies especially to husbands: \u201cLet there be
    no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving\u201d (Ephesians 5:4).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    If we want to be happily married, we will not develop close friendships with members of the opposite sex, and we will not get together one-on-one with another woman (this works both ways, as such behavior can only threaten the security of a marriage). If a man has a close work relationship with a woman, he will need to be especially careful to maintain emotional exclusivity with his wife. This kind of self-restraint is part of faithful husband responsibility<\/strong> and reflects the seriousness of the Biblical Role of a Husband<\/strong>. If he is a pastor (like me) and needs to minister to women in the church, he will be very careful not to become emotionally connected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    I have practiced what used to be called \u201cthe Billy Graham Rule\u201d and what is now known as the \u201cMike Pence Rule\u201d for the Christian former Vice President. This rule says that I will never be behind
    a closed door with a woman who is not my mother, my wife, or my daughter. I will not ride alone
    in a car with a woman outside my family. I do not get together alone with women at all outside
    my family, and if I need to have a conversation, I insist on a door being open or at least a window looking into the room. This is wise protection for yourself \u2014 both against temptation and slanderous accusations \u2014 and it is an important expression of Godly discipline<\/strong>. And while some people will think you stuffy or old-fashioned, your wife will appreciate it very much. She will feel safe in the relationship and confident in your leadership as head of the household<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Perhaps you are not married but only dating. Then let me encourage you that the Biblical pattern for manhood in marriage works beautifully in a relationship that is heading toward marriage. In fact, the best way to develop a marriage relationship is to start practicing the principles that make a good marriage now. This is part of learning how to be a good husband<\/strong> even before marriage.
    The boyfriend should lead the relationship sacrificially, reflecting servant leadership<\/strong>. He does not wait for her to prompt a conversation about \u201cwhere we are in the relationship\u201d; he brings it up
    and makes his intentions clear (and yes, sometimes this means he says they need to break up).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    When the couple is together, the man does not spend all of his time talking about himself, his work, and his sports teams. Instead, he takes an interest in her and seeks to understand her heart. He asks her what things interest her, what she is learning in God\u2019s Word, and what her prayer needs are. In doing so, he practices healthy spiritual leadership<\/strong>. And he makes her feel safe. This means that he does not pressure her sexually but takes the lead in sexual purity. He talks and acts in ways that make her feel comfortable. Not only is this Biblical pattern a good way to prepare for a Godly marriage, but it is also one of the clearest expressions of mature Biblical manhood<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    I mentioned earlier how Boaz took responsibility for the wellbeing of Ruth when she was a widow gleaning in his fields. He was kind to her, made sure she was safe, and generously took care of her provision. Is there any wonder that this story ends with the two of them marrying? We read about this in Ruth 3:9, when Ruth approaches Boaz and suggests that they marry: \u201cI am Ruth, your servant. Spread your wings over your servant, for you are a redeemer.\u201d Notice how she put it \u2014 she wanted to be Boaz\u2019s wife because of his Christ-like conduct toward her. This is a powerful picture of the role of a husband in the Bible<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Obviously, no Christian man can ever take the place of Jesus in a Godly woman\u2019s life. But he can love her in a way that reminds her of Jesus. When a man lives this way, he grows into a Godly husband<\/strong> and a faithful man of God<\/strong>. If we follow the Biblical pattern of manhood in marriage, our wives will feel this kind of security and love toward us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Discassin & Reflection:<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
      \n
    1. Do you know any good examples of a faithful husband? Discuss with your mentor what makes him a good example.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    2. If you\u2019re married, what\u2019s one area where you need to grow as a husband? If you\u2019re not yet married, how can you begin preparing now to live out the Biblical Role of a Husband<\/strong>?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      \u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Part 3: Biblical Manhood as Fathers<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      If marriage is the primary relationship that God has designed for a man, fatherhood is probably the most significant role that any man will fill. If a Christian husband is to love his wife like Christ loved the church, then Christian fathers are to imitate the loving character of God the Father in how they raise their children. This vision lies at the heart of Biblical fatherhood and shapes the role of a father in God\u2019s design. Fortunately, since God the Father and God the Son read from the same script, the principles we have learned about manhood in general are the keys to how to be a good father.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Fatherly Lordship<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      A father\u2019s authority to command his children is highlighted in the instruction of Ephesians 6:1, \u201cChildren, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.\u201d Notice that children should obey their fathers (and mothers) not because they are bigger and stronger and are able to punish, but because \u201cthis is right.\u201d It is God\u2019s design for fathers to lead their children, and this calling reflects intentional spiritual leadership. Moreover, the Bible teaches that learning obedience to parents is essential to a child\u2019s success in life. Children obey their fathers \u201cthat it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land\u201d (Eph. 6:3).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      While a father therefore, must exercise authority over his children, giving and enforcing rules, he also should be tender-hearted and kind: \u201cFathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord\u201d (Eph. 6:4). This balance of authority and care reflects mature Biblical manhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Fatherly Protection<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      When discussing the \u201chow to\u201d of male leadership, I have previously considered the \u201cworking\u201d before the \u201ckeeping.\u201d In this case, I want to discuss the father\u2019s role in protecting and guarding children first because of the vital importance of discipline. Practicing faithful discipline is an expression of Godly discipline<\/em> and a crucial safeguard in raising Godly children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Remember how King David never \u201cdispleased\u201d his sons, with the result that they grew up to be rotten insurrectionists? The same thing happened to Eli, the high priest of Israel, with his sons Hophni and Phinehas. These examples reveal how unchecked behavior can reflect the destructive sins of the father, passing patterns of disobedience from one generation to the next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Given these examples, it is not surprising that the Bible commands Christian parents to discipline their children. Proverbs 13:24 provides both sides of this calling: \u201cWhoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.\u201d This discipline is not harshness but loving correction. Proverbs 29:15 says, \u201cThe rod of correction imparts wisdom.\u201d Discipline is one of the primary ways a father protects his children from their greatest danger \u2014 their own sin and folly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Fathers must always discipline in self-control, dealing with anger before approaching their son or daughter. Discipline should be private rather than public, aiming at restoration rather than shame. Our goal is for children to understand the connection between disobedience and consequence and then to experience reconciliation afterward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      As children grow older, discipline shifts from physical correction to verbal reproof and instruction. This is most effective when a strong bond of affection already exists. Fathers should clearly explain the Biblical basis for their expectations and the wisdom behind boundaries, helping children internalize truth and grow in discernment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Fatherly Nurture<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      Disciplinary protection must be connected to fatherly nurture through discipleship. Fathers must personally lead their children toward faith in the Lord and ongoing growth. This nurturing role defines the role of a father and is central to Biblical fatherhood. It is the father who first implores, \u201cMy son, give me your heart\u201d (Prov. 23:26), who later gains a hearing when correction is required.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Just as a Godly husband seeks to know his wife\u2019s heart, a Godly father aims for the hearts of his sons and daughters. He does not define success merely by behavior but by character and faith. Discipleship aims at the heart \u2014 the desires, aspirations, identity, and purpose of a child. Through patience, presence, prayer, and persistence, fathers model what it means to be strong and courageous in faith.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      It takes time and effort to reach our children’s hearts, but it is worth it. Fathers give their hearts to their children by spending time with them, sharing life, worshiping together, and walking through hardship and joy side by side. This is how faith is passed on and how children are prepared to follow Christ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      I have come up with a four-step approach to reaching the hearts of our children: Read \u2013 Pray \u2013 Work \u2013 Play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      1. Read<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      A father disciples his children by reading the Bible to them and talking about Biblical truths. At its best, this will take place in times set apart for family worship, but it also happens naturally as we go through our day. Paul reminds us that \u201cfaith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ\u201d (Rom. 10:17). The only way anyone ever comes to faith in Jesus is through the power of God\u2019s Word. This is why Bible verses for men are not merely for personal growth but for shaping the next generation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Far too many fathers make the mistake of outsourcing their children\u2019s discipleship. They take them to church, place them in youth programs, or rely entirely on Christian schools. These supports can be helpful, but no one can replace a father\u2019s influence. This is a core truth of Biblical fatherhood and the role of a father in God\u2019s design. You do not need to be a theologian to read Scripture with your children. What matters most is consistency, humility, and faithfulness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      A father who claims he has no time to read Scripture with his family should honestly reexamine his priorities. It does not take long to read a passage at breakfast or after dinner and talk briefly about it. When a father opens the Bible with his children, he is exercising spiritual leadership and shaping their hearts in ways no one else can. God\u2019s Word binds the hearts of fathers and children together in shared truth and conviction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      2. Pray<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      We nurture our children by praying for them and with them. A father has much to bring before the Lord on behalf of his children, and God delights to hear those prayers. When children regularly hear their father pray, they learn that prayer is not a ritual but a living conversation with God. This habit shapes their understanding of faith, strength, and dependence on the Lord.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      A father\u2019s prayers should include praise, thanksgiving, confession, and intercession. We pray for our children\u2019s character, friendships, faith, and future. We also pray about the things that burden their hearts. Inviting children to pray for us teaches humility and models what it means to act like men who depend on God rather than pretending to be self-sufficient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      In prayer, a father shows his children what it means to be strong and courageous\u2014not by relying on his own strength, but by trusting the Lord. This is how children learn that true strength comes from God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      3. Work<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      A father should work with his children. This includes chores at home, school projects, service at church, and shared responsibilities. Working together builds trust, discipline, and shared purpose.
      It also reinforces the truth that work is a gift from God and a calling to be stewarded well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Whether it is painting a room, mowing the lawn, practicing a sport, or helping with homework, these moments form deep bonds. A father\u2019s encouraging presence in his child\u2019s work communicates value and a sense of belonging. This reflects healthy Biblical masculinity, where strength is expressed through presence, patience, and investment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Children who work alongside their fathers learn perseverance, responsibility, and joy in accomplishment. These shared efforts knit hearts together in a way that lectures never can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      4. Play<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      Finally, a father connects with his children through play. Play builds joy, safety, and closeness. When children are young, this may mean sitting on the floor with toys or heading outside to play. As they grow older, play may include sports, hobbies, games, or shared interests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Play communicates delight. It tells a child, \u201cI enjoy being with you.\u201d This is a powerful message that strengthens identity and security. Fathers who play with their children are quietly teaching them about love, attention, and belonging. This kind of presence reflects the heart of a man of God, who mirrors God\u2019s delight in his children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Laughter, shared victories, and even shared disappointments form memories that last a lifetime. These moments become anchors of relationship when children face challenges later in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Bringing It Together<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      This is a simple but profound framework for faithful fatherhood: Read. Pray. Work. Play. These practices define how to be a good father and prepare men for the lifelong calling of raising Godly children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      This kind of fatherhood requires time, because time is the currency through which a father earns the right to say, \u201cMy son, my daughter, give me your heart.\u201d And when a father gives his heart first, his children are far more likely to give theirs in return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Discussion & Reflection<\/strong>:<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
        \n
      1. What kind of relationship did you have with your father? What strengths do you want to emulate, and what patterns do you want to avoid?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      2. If you are a father, which of these four areas \u2014 Read, Pray, Work, or Play \u2014 needs the most growth right now? If you are not yet a father, how can you begin preparing today to live out faithful Biblical fatherhood in the future?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

        \u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Conclusion<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

        Undoubtedly, marriage and fatherhood take up a large portion of a man\u2019s relational space,
        but they are not the only arenas in which Biblical manhood is lived out. God places men into many relationships where faithfulness matters deeply. One of the most important of these is the local church. Scripture calls men to active, committed membership in faithful churches, where spiritual leadership is exercised not through dominance but through service. When God places a man in positions of responsibility, he is to lead with humility, conviction, and faithfulness to God\u2019s Word \u2014this is the essence of servant leadership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Within the church, men are called to \u201cwork and keep\u201d in ways appropriate to their roles. A man
        of God encourages fellow believers, disciples younger men, and guards Biblical truth against compromise. He protects the church not with harshness, but with courage, discernment, and love for Christ\u2019s bride. In this way, he lives out Biblical manhood not only at home, but within the body of Christ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        A Godly man also has a vocation. In the workplace, the same principles of Biblical manhood continue to bear fruit. Whether he is an employee or a leader, he works diligently and with integrity. If entrusted with authority, he accepts responsibility for those under his care. A Godly employer builds people up rather than exploiting them, reflecting the characteristics of a Godly man through fairness, honesty, and accountability. He also protects others from corruption, deceit, and destructive workplace cultures, understanding that leadership always carries moral weight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Friendship is another vital arena for living out Biblical masculinity. Scripture gives us a beautiful picture of the covenant friendship between David and Jonathan. Their relationship was marked by loyalty, encouragement, and sacrificial care (1 Sam. 18\u201320). They guarded one another\u2019s reputations and stood firm in adversity. Such friendships model Biblical masculinity, where strength is expressed through faithfulness, courage, and love for what is right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        As we said at the beginning, the Biblical calling to manhood is simple \u2014 but it is not easy. Men are called to exercise leadership over the people and responsibilities God entrusts to them, and they are to do so by \u201cworking and keeping\u201d\u2014 building others up and guarding what is good. This calling applies across every relationship, whether in the home, the church, the workplace, or friendships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        I would like to conclude by sharing the story of a man who deeply impacted my own life when I was a new believer. I met Lawrence on the night I first heard the Gospel and came to faith in Jesus Christ. He was an older man serving quietly as a deacon at the door of the church I had visited. After my conversion, I began attending regularly, often alone, eager to hear God\u2019s Word and grow in faith. After some time, Lawrence approached me, introduced himself, and asked about my walk with Christ. He invited me to breakfast, where he shared his testimony and patiently taught me how to read Scripture and pray.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Over the years, Lawrence became a steady presence in my life. He prayed for me, encouraged me, and modeled what it meant to be strong and courageous in faith without being harsh or proud. He embodied the quiet strength of a Godly man who understood his calling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        I will never forget Lawrence\u2019s funeral. He was not a famous man and had little worldly wealth, yet the church was filled. Testimony after testimony was given about how God had used him. His children spoke of his love and faithfulness as a father. Others shared how he had discipled them, walked with them through trials, and pointed them consistently to Christ. After the service, one of my fellow pastors said something that has stayed with me ever since: \u201cIt just goes to show what God will do in the life of any man who wholeheartedly consecrates himself to Jesus Christ.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Those words capture the heart of this field guide. Imagine what God may do through your life if you commit yourself to the pattern of Biblical manhood revealed in Scripture. Imagine the eternal fruit borne through faithful obedience in ordinary relationships. Perhaps one day, others will testify to how God used your life to bless them. But even now, as you live out the calling to be a faithful Christian man, those you love most will be shaped \u2014 and blessed \u2014 for eternity by the grace of God at work in you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Endnotes<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

        Richard D. Phillips, The Masculine Mandate: God\u2019s Calling to Men<\/em> (Ligonier Ministries, 2016).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        About the Author<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

        RICHARD D. PHILLIPS is Senior Minister of the historic Second Presbyterian Church in Greenville,
        SC. He is also an adjunct professor at Westminster Theological Seminary, the author of forty-five books, and a frequent speaker at conferences on the Bible and Reformed Theology. He and
        his wife, Sharon, have five children and live in Greenville, SC. Rick is an avid follower of University
        of Michigan sports, enjoys reading historical fiction, and regularly watches Masterpiece Theatre together with his wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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