{"id":4400,"date":"2025-07-11T09:01:33","date_gmt":"2025-07-11T09:01:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thementoringproject.com\/?post_type=field_guides&p=4400"},"modified":"2026-05-01T18:43:08","modified_gmt":"2026-05-01T18:43:08","slug":"98-avoiding-isolation-community-as-a-lifeline","status":"publish","type":"field_guides","link":"https:\/\/thementoringproject.com\/hi\/field-guide\/98-avoiding-isolation-community-as-a-lifeline\/","title":{"rendered":"#98 What Does the Bible Say About Community"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Part I: Join a Church<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Created for Community<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

The true and living God is the Creator of all things (Gen. 1). He is relational, existing in a loving relationship within himself. The Trinity as a model for community shows us that God is one in his essence and subsists in three distinct persons: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit (Gen. 1:1-2, John 1:1-4). Each person within the Trinity is fully God, yet there is only one God. He created human beings as the crown jewels of his creation. He made us in his image (Gen. 1:26-27).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Part of imaging God means reflecting and representing him. He created us for a relationship with himself and with fellow image bearers. One way we reflect his character (love, patience, kindness, truthfulness) is by living in relationships with others. Exploring what does the Bible say about community reveals that he created us to live in community. He made us to do life with other people, to rub shoulders with others, and to experience life’s highs and lows together. By his wise design, we grow and mature not in isolation but through intentional relationships with his people (Eph. 4:15-16). \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Search for Community<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Activities like book clubs, fitness classes, trivia nights, etc. are all great ways to meet people. However, the best place to find Christian community is in a healthy, gospel-preaching local church. The church is the family of God (John 1:12\u201313; Eph. 1:4\u20135, 2:19). It consists of <\/strong>people who believe the gospel, who love Christ, who are committed to helping others follow him, and with whom you will spend eternity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are the kinds of people Christ graciously gives you for Christian fellowship. These are the kinds of people you ought to want as your community. God\u2019s answer to the problem of isolation is the local church.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By God\u2019s grace, when you repented of your sins and believed the gospel, the Holy Spirit united you to Christ Jesus (Eph. 1:13-14). He also united you to his people in Christ (1 Cor. 12:12-13; Eph. 2:11-16). Christ saved you individually, but not for isolation. He wants you to be among those who publicly identify with him\u2014the church \u2014and to do life with them.   As you begin your search for a church community, remember, there is no perfect church. The church consists of sinners who are saved by grace through faith in Christ (Eph. 2:1-10). It consists of sinners who are being sanctified in Christ (1 Thess. 5:23-24). This means that the church is full of saved sinners who still commit sin and who are sinned against. The church consists of sinners who forgive and are forgiven. Therefore, know that your pursuit and experience of community will be messy. You will experience some disappointment, hurt, and heartache, which could push you towards isolation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t let that deter you. When we read Bible verses about lonliness, we see that God is the Father of mercies and of all comfort (2 Cor. 1:3-5). He can console you in your hurt. Also, having a community is worth experiencing and enduring some disappointment and discouragement. C.S. Lewis reminds us of this when he says:  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.[1]   Though the church is not perfect, it has a perfect Savior. He is maturing his church and will perfect it on the final day (2 Cor. 5:21; Phil. 1:6). She is not what she will one day be (1 John 3:1-3). You won\u2019t find a perfect church. However, by God\u2019s grace, you can find a healthy church and build great community there.   In your search for a church, prioritize one that is committed to sound doctrine and expositional preaching. You want a church that exalts Christ in the service, and especially in the sermon. Faithful gospel preaching has the same impact on a community that an engine has on a car. It\u2019s not the only part, but it\u2019s the most important part. You also want to know that the church practices hospitality in the Bible (Rom. 15:7) and that their love for one another is evident (John 13:34-35). Below are questions to consider asking yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013<\/strong> Does this church lovingly welcome and greet one another and visitors?
\u2013<\/strong> Have members introduced themselves to you, initiated conversations with you, or invited you to join them after service?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the answer to these questions is \u201cyes,\u201d it is a strong sign that this is a good place to land and a way of overcoming the fear of vulnerability in community. In your search for community, it is best to choose a church where it is difficult to go unnoticed and easy to connect with others. This type of church will place you in a great position to avoid isolation and find the true meaning of community.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Become a Church Member<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Once you have found the church, pursue church membership. It is the first step towards having a community. You want the community to consist of people who are fully committed to you, and you to them. The commitment serves as a greenhouse for meaningful relationships. It provides the context for the community to blossom. It opens the door for transparency and vulnerability, allowing you to lower your guard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The commitment shouts \u201cno matter what you share, I am here for you, and I will bear your burdens (Gal. 6:1-2).\u201d Through church membership, you\u2019ve officially become a family member of that family. Your membership serves as an invitation for the body to know you and be known by you. You have effectively made it harder for yourself to live in isolation and easier to live in community. By God\u2019s grace, you have walked through the front door of a community fair that welcomes you into having rich, meaningful, and encouraging relationships with these people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Reflection Questions:<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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  1. How does knowing that God created you for community influence your pursuit of community?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Where have you looked for community? Why?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Why is church membership the first step towards living in community?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

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    Part II: Sunday Service: Show Up Early, Stick Around Afterwards<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Now that you\u2019re a church member, it\u2019s time to take more active steps toward community. Though you\u2019ve joined a church, community will likely not be automatic or instantaneous. It will take discipline and effort on your part. You will see the same people every Sunday at the church gathering (Heb. 10:24-25). This consistency makes it conducive to building community. It is good to take advantage of this opportunity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A great way to position yourself to build a community within your church is to clear your Sunday calendar. As much as you can, guard it as a day to spend with church members. Then initiate with them. This is how you begin overcoming social anxiety and overcoming the fear of vulnerability in community. What does this look like? Here are a few ideas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Show Up Early to the Gathering<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

    As the church gathers for corporate worship, it\u2019s common to think of it like a trip to the movies. You arrive right before the movie starts. You don\u2019t talk with anyone who sits around you. You\u2019re there solely for your own good. Afterwards, you exit without talking to anyone. Now, this may be a fine thing to do at the movies, but these types of actions lead to a bad church experience. They contribute to isolation and serve as repellents to building community. You limit your ability to importance of social interaction, hindering your ability to build meaningful relationships. Therefore, it is wise to prioritize early arrival.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Try arriving 10-15 minutes before service begins. This allows time for one or two conversations before things begin. As you enter the building, don\u2019t ask yourself, \u201cWho will engage me in conversation? Who will initiate a conversation with me?\u201d Those questions flow from a self-centered mindset. Remember, Christ came not to be served but to serve (Mk 10:45). He calls you to love others as he has loved you (John 13:34-35).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Therefore, ask the Lord to help you enter the church building looking to the interests of others (Phil. 2:1-4). It may seem counterintuitive, but to have a community, you must contribute to it for the sake of others. You must care for others to have caring relationships. To have friends, you must prioritize being a friend and look to Bible verses about friendship for your model. It\u2019s as you strive to know people that you are usually known by them. So, enter the church with the mentality of a servant and ask yourself, \u201cWho can I converse with? Who can I encourage?\u201d   Initiating conversations can be awkward and difficult. Trust me, I feel that! Also, most conversations are short and superficial. You ask, \u201cHow are you doing?\u201d and someone responds, \u201cI\u2019m doing alright,\u201d and the conversation ends. You want to avoid this. A helpful way to initiate meaningful conversations is by having a few curated questions to spark them. Below are a few questions you could ask: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u2013 How\u2019s your week been?
    \u2013 What encouraged you this past week?
    \u2013 What\u2019s bringing you joy in this season?
    \u2013 Have you had a chance to look at the sermon text today? Any questions you hope the preacher answers?
    \u2013 How was your faith encouraged this week?
    \u2013 What discouraged you this past week?
    \u2013 Has anything happened in the last week that I can be praying about for you?
    \u2013 What was a high or low from the previous week?
    \u2013 What\u2019s something you\u2019re grateful for this week?
    \u2013 What does a typical week look like for you?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    With one or two intentional questions, conversations will naturally flow. As the person answers your questions, you will get to know them better, and vice versa. As you initiate, you can be an instrument in the Lord\u2019s hands that does them good. This is a practical step in how to find godly friends as an adult. As you pray for them and follow up the following week, you will likely form a friendship with them. As you make this a regular rhythm, you will get to know more people and lay a foundation for building Christian fellowship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Stick Around After Service<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

    When service ends, it is most tempting to grab your belongings and leave. You\u2019ve been in service for over an hour. You may want to get home. You\u2019re hungry. You may not know anyone. No one may know you. You also wish to avoid the awkwardness of standing alone. Yet let me caution you against this action, as the habit of leaving immediately after service contributes to isolation. You close the door to know others and be known by them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So, don\u2019t seize the opportunity to exit, but to engage with others instead. After service is a prime opportunity to invest and make relational deposits that can lead to rich friendships. This is how we live out Bible verses about community. You can look to start conversations with people who sat around you. After all, you\u2019re closest to them in proximity. You can also look around to see who is alone or not talking to anyone. You can make a beeline for them to talk. You can introduce yourself to them and ask how long they\u2019ve been attending the church. You can also ask if they\u2019re from the area. After getting to know someone a bit, you can ask questions about the service and sermon. Below are a few questions you might offer: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u2013 How did the Lord encourage you through the sermon?
    \u2013 What was a particular point, cross-reference, or line that blessed you?
    \u2013 What\u2019s a point from the sermon you want to meditate on more?
    \u2013 What\u2019s one way you want to apply the sermon to your life?
    \u2013 In light of the sermon, what\u2019s one way I can pray for you this week?
    \u2013 What song did we sing, stir your affections for the Lord?
    \u2013 How can I pray for you this week?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The conversation doesn\u2019t have to be long; it just has to be intentional. As you ask questions and answer them, you put forth effort to care for others, and you open yourself to their care. You\u2019ve had a meaningful conversation. You now know how you can pray for them.\u00a0\u00a0 One of my pastor friends created a \u201c3-2-1\u201d principle for interactions after service. He greets three people. He asks questions to two people. He has an intentionally deep conversation with one person. He also prays for and follows up with the person he engaged deeply with. The principle is practical and replicable. If you adopt it, you will have initiated interactions with six different people each time you\u2019re in church. The level of conversations is like being at a swimming pool; you continually progress into deeper waters. This is an excellent method for overcoming loneliness. Just think how many people the Lord might use you to bless through this simple approach!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Lunch After Service<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

    When service ends, there is one activity that everyone will engage in\u2014eating lunch. People are usually hungry. Many of them have either made lunch plans or are about to. You, too, will eat lunch after service. In this area, avoiding isolation doesn\u2019t require a drastic shift in your schedule, but rather an expansion of company in your regular routine. Therefore, make it your goal to regularly enjoy lunch with others after service (Gen. 2:18). This is a beautiful way to practice hospitality in the Bible. These arrangements can vary. You can:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u2013 Make a pot of soup or spaghetti and invite one to three people to your home.
    \u2013 Invite people to your home and have a potluck.
    \u2013 Invite people to your home and order a few boxes of pizza, and have everyone financially contribute.
    \u2013 Invite people to your home and do BYOF (Bring your Own Food).|
    \u2013 Invite people to lunch with you.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    If you invite people to join you for lunch at a restaurant, make sure the restaurant checks a few boxes. One such box is that the place is inexpensive. If the restaurant costs more, it will deter people from joining. The goal is to build and strengthen relationships in your church. The goal is to avoid isolation. Therefore, aim for the meal to be inexpensive. Another box to check is having a good environment. As you invite people to lunch, aim to eat at a place conducive to conversation. A loud environment is a conversation killer. However, if it\u2019s a suitable environment for conversations, you can have edifying discussions. At lunch, you can ask the questions mentioned above. You can also ask questions like:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u2013 What\u2019s your story?
    \u2013 How did the Lord save you by his grace?
    \u2013 How did the Lord bring you to this church?
    \u2013 Name three Christians who have had the most significant influence on your faith?
    \u2013 What are three books that have had a profound impact on your faith?\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    As you ask and answer these questions, you\u2019re active in building Christian community. As this is a regular rhythm, you will find yourself being alone less and being with people more. As you do this with the same people, your friendships will blossom. A community forms over time as you consistently spend time with the same people. It brings you closer to others and helps in balancing solitude vs isolation biblically. So, make it a habit to eat lunch with others after service.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Reflection Questions:<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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    1. How often have you approached Sundays with a self-centered mentality (Who will talk with me, etc.) as opposed to an other-centered mentality (who can I converse with, who can I encourage)?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    2. How would a different mindset impact your actions and motives?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    3. Which application from this article do you plan to apply?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

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      Part III: Discipleship\u2014Do Life Together<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      As you flee a life of isolation and flock to a life in community, it is vital to intentionally prioritize doing life with a few people. What oxygen does for the body is similar to what consistent and intentional time with a few people does for community. It is essential. Without oxygen, you\u2019re a corpse. Without consistent, intentional time with people, you\u2019re alone. Understanding the importance of community means recognizing that we are not designed for a solitary race. As stated, the church is God\u2019s answer to isolation. One way to have Christian community within the church is through discipling relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      During Christ\u2019s earthly ministry, his primary community was formed by his disciples (Mark 3:14). Jesus did life with them. He had them with him when he walked, taught, prayed, performed miracles, dined, and slept (Mark 4:1-5:43; Luke 11:1-4). He is our standard and example, providing the Trinity as a model for community in human form. Also, the apostle Paul always had people with him during his ministry (Acts 16:3-4, 20:4-5). So, in your quest for community, prioritize and pursue discipling relationships. Through discipleship, you will know a few people in a deep and meaningful way. These relationships will help you and them fight against sin and progress towards Christlikeness (Heb. 3:12-14; Phil. 1:25-26). Sanctification is both a personal endeavor and a community project (Phil. 3:12-14; 2 Tim. 2:22). We grow best in the knowledge of Christ and his love with one another (Eph. 3:17-29).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Discipleship is a life-on-life relationship aimed at helping one another grow in Christ. It\u2019s sharing the truth of the gospel and your life with others (1 Thess. 2:8-10). It\u2019s opening the Word and your schedule to someone else. This is a practical way of overcoming loneliness. It is far from comfortable and messier than you\u2019d think because we\u2019re sinners intentionally spending time with sinners. Though it is a bit uncomfortable, over time it bears the fruit of strong, sweet relationships. Through them, you and they look more like Christ, which is God\u2019s goal (Rom. 8:28-29). Through discipling relationships, you will have what you need\u2014true Christian fellowship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Who to Disciple<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      Discipling relationships in the church are characterized by more mature members discipling more immature members (1 Cor. 11:1; Phil. 3:14-17). This normally means older people discipling younger people (Titus 2:1-8). The apostle Paul discipled Timothy and Titus. He called them sons in the faith (1 Tim. 1:2; Tit. 1:4). Therefore, as you survey the church, look for someone who is a more mature member of the same gender. This is often how to find godly friends as an adult who can sharpen you. Your pastors and leaders would love to help you in this search. Also, look for some members who are less mature in the faith for you to disciple. The next step is to take the initiative.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Rhythms: Weekly<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      Once you form a discipleship group, establish a habit of meeting weekly. The rhythm of weekly meetings sets the context for having good discipling relationships and building community in the Bible. What should take place during those meetings? I suggest you spend that time reading Scripture or a good Christian book, discussing applications, confessing sin, and praying. The bulk of the time should be spent around the Word because you want to build the community on Christ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      By God\u2019s grace, as you grow in Christ, you grow together (Eph. 4:15-16). This is the goal of discipleship. We mature in love and holiness through the knowledge of Christ (Rom. 12:2; Phil. 1:9-11; 2 Pet. 1:2-11). As you share and hear observations from Scripture, the Lord uses them to increase our love for him. As you pray together and for one another, the Lord increases your affections for one another. When you establish this weekly rhythm, you make it more challenging to live in isolation and easier to live in community. You have a weekly appointment to meet with a few people. Not only that, you will see them at least twice a week because of the Sunday gathering and your discipleship group. As you meet regularly and spend intentional time together, you will begin to form a community and experience the meaning of community in a tangible way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Transparency and Vulnerability<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      A real community, one with depth, is a small group of people who really know one another. The group is transparent about its strengths, weaknesses, and struggles. The night of Jesus\u2019 crucifixion, he opened up to a few of his disciples (Mark 14:32-35). The apostle Paul exhorts the church to bear one another\u2019s burdens (Gal. 6:1-2). Your community can only bear your burdens if you share them out loud. All of us have struggles with particular abiding sins. When we look at lonliness in the Bible, we often see it coupled with the weight of carrying burdens alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      All of us struggle with temptations to those specific sins (Jas. 1:13-15). All of us have certain fears. All of us are prone to discouragement in specific ways. If you\u2019re going to live in a real, honest community, you will have to open your heart and bear your soul before others. This is the path to overcoming the fear of vulnerability in community. The Lord uses this type of honesty to produce closeness. Transparency breeds more transparency. It\u2019s the airflow that allows vulnerability and intimacy to circulate within the group. You want to know your group and be known by them. This level of intimate knowledge knits your hearts together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      The reason for transparency and vulnerability is to grow in Christ. You do this to receive God\u2019s help through your discipleship group. By being transparent, your group learns specific ways they can pray for you, encourage you, and follow up with you. And you get to do it the same with them. Like I said, holiness and perseverance are a community project (Heb. 3:12-14; 12:14-17). This provides an answer to the question, “is isolation a sin or a season?”\u2014it reveals that we are not meant to battle in the dark alone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Prioritize Time Together<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

      The weekly time together in the Word is an integral part of the discipling relationships. It plays a vital role in spiritual formation (John 17:17). However, discipleship is more than a weekly bible study. Jesus\u2019 disciples weren\u2019t just with him when he taught; they were with him all the time (Mark 3:14). Time together outside of regular Bible Study can be intimidating and provoke insecurities because we\u2019re sinners. We naturally want to cover our blemishes, conceal our weaknesses, and hide our sins. However, we don\u2019t invite people into our lives because we\u2019re perfect. Nor do we do it to perform and to please people. Love for them is the motivating factor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Time is a precious commodity. It\u2019s non-refundable. It has a no-return policy. Therefore, the willingness to invite people into your life communicates genuine affections for them (1 Thess. 2:8). Genuine love is an essential ingredient for community and reflects the hospitality in the Bible.   The prioritization of time together doesn\u2019t require a complete overhaul of your schedule. It just requires a willingness to open your schedule to others and find how to stop feeling lonely by integrating others into your daily life. It requires you to reflect on your rhythms and see what activities you can invite others to join you in. The activities and amount of time together can vary. You may spend a day together, a few hours, or 30 minutes. Regardless of the amount of time, each touch is valuable, as it contributes to the formation of a community. Each time you spend with them is an incremental investment in the relationship and another brick laid to build community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      What regular rhythms are on your schedule? If you like to exercise, you can invite people to join you for a workout. The time together in a gym or on a run provides an excellent context for in-depth conversations and the importance of social interaction. It\u2019s a way to encourage and support each other. The shared experience is a sweet memory made. The accumulation of those experiences creates the snowball effect that accelerates the formation of community and closeness. There are a number of activities you can invite your discipleship group to join you in: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u2013 Dinner with your family
      \u2013 Home project
      \u2013 Service project
      \u2013 Walks outside in the park
      \u2013 Camping
      \u2013 Hiking
      \u2013 Weekend trip
      \u2013 Grocery shopping
      \u2013 Seeing a movie
      \u2013 Game night
      \u2013 Watching a sports game
      \u2013 Bonfire\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Intentional time with the people you disciple or who disciple you will help you foster community and live out Bible verses about friendship. The more time you spend with them, the stronger your relationships will be. You will experience the joy of living in a sweet and encouraging community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      Reflection Questions:<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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      1. Has this chapter changed, challenged, or confirmed your view of discipleship? If so, how?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      2. Are you a part of a discipleship group? If so, have you opened up to the people in your group?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      3. What rhythms can you invite your discipleship group to join you in?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

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        Part IV: Hospitality: Open your Home, Open your Heart<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

        The quest for community requires intentional time together. The more meaningful time spent together, the deeper the community will be. An essential way to avoid isolation and cultivate community is through hospitality. The meaning of community is best expressed when we open our lives to one another. The biblical definition of hospitality is the love of strangers; it means welcoming and receiving guests into your home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        God is hospitable. He lovingly created the world and welcomed us into his world (Gen. 1). He created Eden and brought Adam into his presence, where Adam walked with God (Gen. 2:15, 3:8). After Adam sinned, God exiled him from his presence (Gen. 3:24). God is holy, and man is sinful. Humans are born separated from God because of sin (Isa. 59:2). When we look at lonliness in the Bible, we see that it fundamentally stems from this separation. God has always planned to reconcile sinners to himself to bring them back into his presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        In the Old Covenant, God made a gracious provision by allowing the High Priest to temporarily enter his presence to offer a sacrifice to atone for his sins and the sins of Israel (Lev. 16). This sacrificial work anticipated the work of Christ. Christ, the divine Son, became a man to reconcile sinners to God through his death and resurrection (1 Pet. 3:18). The exalted Christ is now in heaven preparing a place for us (John 14:2-3). Christ will return, and God will dwell with us in the new heavens and the new earth (Rev. 21:1-5; 22:14).   Given all this, it isn\u2019t a stretch to say God is the most hospitable! But here\u2019s the thing: the God who is most hospitable commands his people to resemble him through hospitality in the Bible towards one another (Rom. 12:13; 1 Pet. 4:9). We open our homes to love, serve, and bless one another as has been done for us. This is the heart of Christian fellowship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

         Hospitality is countercultural in our day. We live in times when people don\u2019t open their doors to others. Time together is usually spent away from the house. The home is commonly viewed as one’s private sanctuary. Many want it to remain private. Yet, the gospel leads us to view our homes differently.[1] We lovingly welcome one another as Christ has welcomed us (Rom. 15:7). If we want to live in Christian community and have healthy relationships, we must commit ourselves to hospitality. As you open the doors of your home, you create opportunities for closeness. Intentional time together inside your home helps your community feel more like family.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

        What Hospitality Doesn\u2019t Mean<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

          It is essential to clarify what hospitality doesn\u2019t mean. First off, hospitality doesn\u2019t mean you have to be an extrovert. People with outgoing personalities are not the only ones who should host. Scripture commands all Christians to be hospitable without grumbling, regardless of personality types (1 Pet. 4:9). If one is more introverted, hospitality may require more effort and energy. Still, the Lord\u2019s grace is sufficient (2 Cor. 12:9-10). The Holy Spirit is the helper who is ready to help you (John 14) in overcoming social anxiety.   Hospitality also doesn\u2019t mean you provide entertainment. When you host, you\u2019re not performing for your guests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Hospitality isn\u2019t about you working to make them pleased and have a good time. Theaters, stadiums, and arenas provide entertainment, pleasure, and amusement. You don\u2019t show hospitality to entertain but to engage, love, and serve. This shifts the focus from performance to the importance of social interaction.   Hospitality doesn\u2019t mean you have an extravagant house for people to see or provide the best meal for them to enjoy. Your home isn\u2019t an art gallery to display paintings, photos, decorations, and gadgets. Your home isn\u2019t a museum of your collections and trophies. Instead, your house is a hub for connection, engagement, encouragement, and refreshment. When you host, the meal doesn\u2019t have to be Michelin-starred! You don\u2019t have to provide a full-course meal or have a fantastic menu. You don\u2019t have to break the bank for your guests. Just make a pot of spaghetti or tacos! When showing hospitality, your goal isn\u2019t to knock your guests\u2019 socks off but build them up in the Lord according to Bible verses about community. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

         I have friends who have hosted Taco Tuesdays at their home for years. Tacos are inexpensive. They\u2019re not an extravagant item on the menu, yet it\u2019s what my friends provide. For them, Taco Tuesday started as a small group of friends enjoying a cheap meal, and it has grown into a weekly gathering for a large group. They have a rich community and sweet friendships, made possible by weekly tacos for people to enjoy. If you spoke with the guest, they would tell you that they don\u2019t attend for the tacos but for the people and the sweet time together. This is a practical example of how to find godly friends as an adult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        What Hospitality Does Means<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

          Hospitality is welcoming guests into your home with the aim of blessing and serving them. Your goal is their encouragement. You want the Lord to use the time in your home to fill their cups and spur them on. Therefore, when you host, see it as an opportunity to edify them. The time together in your home strengthens your relationship and, thus, your community.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

        As you commit to being hospitable, you need to set a good, sustainable rhythm for yourself. Scripture doesn\u2019t say how often you should host. It doesn\u2019t mandate the frequency of your hospitality, only the heart posture for it (1 Pet. 4:9). Distance runners will tell you that a key to a good race is establishing a good pace. If you go out too fast and too hard, you will burn out. Maintaining a healthy community is not a sprint but a marathon. Hosting daily or three times a week may be unsustainable for you. I suggest starting slowly and building over time. This helps in balancing solitude vs isolation biblically. As you continually host, the bond of your community will grow not in days, but in months and years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Meaningful Conversations<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

        \u00a0 When hosting, you have the opportunity to set the agenda and facilitate conversations. You want the time to be meaningful and memorable. You should have a few questions that can lead to sweet conversations and help in overcoming the fear of vulnerability in community. Below is a list of questions you could ask:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        \u2013 How did the Lord save you?
        \u2013 What\u2019s something sweet in this season (a rose)?
        \u2013 What\u2019s something hard in this season (a thorn)?
        \u2013 What\u2019s something the Lord is teaching you (a bud)?
        \u2013 What\u2019s your favorite Christian song (hymn, contemporary, gospel) (a scent)?
        \u2013 What passage of Scripture has really ministered to you recently? Why?
        \u2013 What are you reading in Scripture? How has it encouraged you?
        \u2013 What aspect of God\u2019s character has most deeply ministered to you in this season?
        \u2013 What aspect of God\u2019s character are you doubting this season? Why?
        What\u2019s a passage that can help you combat it?\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        As you facilitate conversations, aim to answer the questions you ask. You want them to know you as you open your heart. You want to share your sorrows and struggles and the sweet moments the Lord gives you. This is a vital part of overcoming loneliness. The more you open your heart, the more you provide opportunities for others to truly know you, which allows you to have community. The richness of the community will develop as you commit yourself to hosting people and opening your heart to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Reflecting on Bible verses about friendship, we see that a friend loves at all times. By inviting people in, you are practicing the very community in the Bible that sustains the soul. Even when you feel like you are struggling with Bible verses about lonliness, remember that God sets the solitary in families.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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        Reflection Questions:<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
          \n
        1. How has this chapter influenced your view on hospitality?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
        2. How does God\u2019s hospitality towards you in Christ motivate you to be hospitable towards others?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
        3. Who can you invite to your home next week? What questions can you ask to facilitate meaningful conversations?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

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          Part 5: Play the Long Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

          A real, meaningful, enriching community doesn\u2019t happen overnight. It takes time and intentionality. If community is a meal, it\u2019s not cooked in a microwave but in a crockpot. Crockpot meals take hours to cook. They require patience. In the same way, a real community takes time to form and enjoy. It requires effort and patience. It involves self-denial and a diligent pursuit of others (Luke 9:23-24; Phil. 2:3-5). A lifestyle of avoiding isolation and living in Christian community is a commitment to playing the long game. What does this look like?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Perspective<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

          If you\u2019re going to live and remain in community, you must maintain a proper perspective. One thing to keep in mind is that your community will be small. God created you to be a finite creature with limited capacity, knowledge, and time. It is impossible to know and be known by everyone. You can be a mile wide and an inch deep, but you won\u2019t have real Christian fellowship. Or you can adopt a less-is-more mentality. You know a few people, but you know them deeply. You can prioritize intentionally encouraging a small group of people while also praying for other church members (Heb. 3:12-14). The more you know a few people, the more you can provide them with specific care and encouragement. This is the true meaning of community.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Prayer<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

          A rich community is a great prayer request to pray for consistently. This is a prayer that God would love to answer because he made you for a relationship with Himself and his people. He brought you into his family. He wants his comfort and love to be mediated through his people to you (John 13:34-35; 2 Cor. 1:3-7). Jesus commanded prayer and promised favorable answers if the requests are aligned with his will (Matt. 7:7-11; John 14:13-14). A life lived in community with church members certainly aligns with the Lord\u2019s will. Therefore, it is good to devote yourself to persistent prayer for community and look for Bible verses about community to fuel those prayers. Your prayers for it demonstrate your dependence on God.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Whenever the Lord provides you with rich community, it\u2019s good to keep praying for it. You need the Lord to grow it. Prayerlessness about the community can cause it to shrivel up like a dead plant. However, persistent prayer for it can result in its flourishing. Pray for the relationships to deepen and grow sweeter. Pray that the community would be committed to living out the one another passages found in the New Testament (John 13:34-35; Gal. 6:1-2, 1 Thess. 4:18). This is essential for overcoming loneliness. Prayer is an effective and necessary tool for lasting community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Presence<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

          Community, by its definition, requires in-person relationships. It\u2019s the only way one can have an actual community. Time spent together is a primary way in which a community is formed and strengthened. The effort to avoid isolation entails the commitment to being with others. If someone is a part of your community, they show up for you and vice versa. If you want to have a strong, lasting community, commit yourself to the ministry of presence (Prov. 17:17). Scripture encourages Christians to live this way (Rom. 12:15).  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

          The ministry of presence blesses people more than you think. It demonstrates compassion and care. The ministry of presence was the only action we can commend in Job\u2019s friends (Job 2:11-13). In a digital age, physical presence screams love and commitment with a loud megaphone. Scripture teaches there is a time for everything (Ecc. 3:1-8). As you prioritize being present in both good and bad times, you strengthen the closeness of your relationships. What should you show up for? Make it your goal to be present for your community when: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

          \u2013 One gets a promotion
          \u2013 One loses their job
          \u2013 A relationship ends
          \u2013 Someone gets engaged.
          \u2013 There is a wedding
          \u2013 There is a funeral
          \u2013 One gets a diagnosis
          \u2013 One has a successful surgery
          \u2013 One miscarrie
          \u2013 One\u2019s child is born
          \u2013 One\u2019s parents divorce
          \u2013 A pipe bursts in their home
          \u2013 One buys a new home\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          As you seek community as a lifeline for your life, strive to love your neighbor as yourself by being community for others (Gal. 5:14). This is the importance of social interaction. As you continually show up to share in their grief and joy, your community will feel like the spiritual family you are in Christ. The more you show up for others, the more you will avoid isolation. The more you show up for others, the more you will live in community in the Bible. The more you show up for others, the more they will feel loved by you. The more you show up for others, the richer and sweeter your relationship will be. You want to live in community, not just for a season, but for a lifetime. Your commitment to being present with others will certainly help you fulfill that goal and answer the question of how to stop feeling lonely.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Patience<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

          Community doesn\u2019t happen overnight. Nor can you rush the process of forming it. It usually doesn\u2019t happen on the timeline we unconsciously set. Instead, it develops over time through intentional interactions and time together. One key phrase is \u201cover time.\u201d This requires patience, the ability to wait and forbear without complaining or quitting. The Lord is patient with his people (Ex. 34:6-7). He calls his people to resemble that patience towards others (Gal. 5:22-23; Eph. 4:1-3; Col. 3:12-14; 1 Thess. 5:14). Love is patient (1 Cor. 13:4). If you\u2019re going to live in community, you need patience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          You will need to be patient in the pursuit of community. You may not hit it off immediately. Not every interaction will be pleasant or a home run. Not every conversation will be easy. There may be awkward moments. It may take you some time to open up to others. It may take them time to open up to you. This is part of overcoming the fear of vulnerability in community. You may be the primary initiator for time together for a season. Yet every interaction and shared experience is a step toward building community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          You will need patience for living in community. You will identify quirks in others you don\u2019t like. There will be challenging moments. You will give and receive admonishments and rebukes (Prov. 27:5-6). You will be sinned against, where you will need to forgive (Luke 17:3-4). You will sin and need to seek forgiveness from others. The Lord will use your community to make you more like himself (Phil. 1:6). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Perseverance<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

          Pursuing and maintaining community requires endurance and perseverance. You will get tired. There will likely be times when you\u2019re tempted to throw in the towel. This calls for perseverance. The apostle Paul said, \u201cLet us not get tired of doing good, for we will reap at the proper time if we don\u2019t give up\u201d (Gal. 6:9). This is a life verse to cling to as you strive to live in community and find how to find godly friends as an adult. When you persevere in your pursuit of others, you will eventually enjoy the sweet fruit of your labor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Perseverance is also required for maintaining the community. You want it to deepen. You want the closeness to grow. You want to encourage the people you do life with (Heb. 3:12-14). You want to continue to prioritize time with them, especially as life gets busy. It will take even more intentionality. This happens through perseverance. A well-tended garden is beautiful, a pleasant sight to the eyes. The soil looks good. The plants appear healthy and trimmed. The weeds are plucked. This isn\u2019t the fruit of laziness. This isn\u2019t the fruit of passivity. This isn\u2019t the fruit of doing the bare minimum. It\u2019s the result of hard work. It\u2019s the result of intentional care. It\u2019s the result of persistence in tending to the garden. Your community can flourish through perseverance. As you continually call, encourage, host, pursue, and serve them, you not only live in community but also actively contribute to its blossoming. This is the importance of community in action.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

          In your effort to live in a healthy community, keep Paul\u2019s exhortation before you, \u201cTherefore, my dear brothers and sisters, be steadfast, immovable, always excelling in the Lord\u2019s work, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain\u201d (1 Cor. 15:58). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

          A healthy community is something worth pursuing. Though it takes time to grow, you can experience an enriched and encouraging life with others. As you play the long game, do so with the vision of eternal glory in view. Through the gospel, God in Christ has made you a citizen of his kingdom, a member of his covenant community, and a child in his family (Eph. 2:11-22). This is the ultimate fulfillment of what does the Bible say about community. Therefore, you will live in community with the redeemed in the presence of God for eternity (Rev. 21:1-5; 22:3-5). May that future reality continually shape and motivate your pursuit of community in this life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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          Reflection Questions:<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
            \n
          1. Which of the five Ps resonates with you the most?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
          2. How is your prayer life for community?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
          3. How are you doing with being present for people in your community?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

            \u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Conclusion<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

            You may have lived in isolation for some time and assumed it would remain that way. Yet, God created you for something different. God created you for something better. God in Christ saved you into something far better and sweeter than isolation\u2014a relationship with him and his people. He has effectively called you into his body, the church (1 Cor. 12:12-14). He wants you to experience life in fellowship with him and his people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            May the gospel lead you to take the initiative and pursue others (Mark 10:45; Phil. 2:1-11). May Christ\u2019s love motivate you to be community for others. May God\u2019s purposes for man in creation and redemption compel you to avoid isolation and live in community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            About the Author<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

            Joshua Chatman<\/strong> serves as a pastor of Midtown Baptist Church in Memphis, TN.\u00a0 He and his wife, Stephanie, live in Midtown with their four children: Jayce, Braylee, Brielle, and Skyler.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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