Asking God to change our hearts instead of our circumstances is the first step toward spiritual growth. Fewer Christians pray, “Lord, make me holy, whatever it costs,” than those who ask for help, guidance, or blessings. However, God always takes pleasure in responding to this petition.
Scripture makes it abundantly evident that submission is necessary for growth. “If anyone would come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily,” declared Jesus (Luke 9:23). Denial is preparation, not punishment. Scriptures on spiritual growth continually demonstrate that God grows us by trust, obedience, and perseverance. God starts His most profound work when we give up control.
“Father, show me what must change” is one of the most straightforward prayers for spiritual growth. Conviction, repentance, and rejuvenation are made possible by that prayer. Pruning is a loving deed, as verses about spiritual development remind us. According to Hebrews, individuals who receive discipline have “the peaceful fruit of righteousness.” Even while growth can be uncomfortable, it is always worthwhile.
I frequently advise believers to pray the Bible. When words fail to express our desires, spiritual growth scriptures do. In Ephesians, Paul says to pray for inner strength. In the Psalms, David prays, “Create in me a clean heart, O God.” These verses about spiritual growth ground our faith in reality and match our wants with God’s will.
Surrender is a continuous attitude rather than a one-time event. Every morning, we make a new decision on who to trust. Mature faith is determined by how completely we surrender, not by how much we know. God transforms us into humble, loving reflections of Christ when we give Him our routines, temptations, plans, and wounds.
Don’t wait for ideal circumstances if you want deeper progress. Begin today with honest prayer for spiritual growth, faithful obedience, and open hands. You are not nearly as dedicated to your transformation as God is.
As you continue this journey, I encourage you to explore the free Biblical Life Skill Guides. These guides, available in both audio and PDF formats, are intended to help believers grow through Scripture, wisdom, and practical application.
I especially recommend the guide “Guarding Your Heart: Protecting Your Soul in a Tempting World”:
It offers timely, biblical insight into living faithfully in a distracted and challenging world.
May your prayers be bold, your surrender complete, and your faith ever maturing in Christ.