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  1. مقدمه
  2. درک سخاوت
    1. تعریف هر دو از دیدگاه کتاب مقدس
    2. سخاوت داشتن: توکل به خدا
    3. آموزه‌های عیسی در مورد سخاوت
    4. برکات سخاوت
    5. داستان دو سبک زندگی
    6. چرا هرگز کافی نیست
    7. فایده‌ی بخشش پول فراتر از ارزش ظاهری آن است
    8. چگونه از حرص و طمع به سخاوت تغییر جهت دهیم
  3. قلب پشت بخشش
    1. انفاق به عنوان یک عمل عبادی و اطاعتی
    2. انفاق چه ربطی به عبادت دارد؟
    3. چرا برای عبادت هزینه می‌کنیم؟
    4. رابطه بین بخشش و اطاعت
    5. بخشیدن چیزی بیش از پول است
    6. برکات خداوند از طریق بخشش
    7. چه چیزی ما را از بخشیدن باز می‌دارد؟
    8. بخشیدن به عنوان فداکاری
    9. غلبه بر ترس و خودخواهی در بخشش مالی و شخصی
    10. مانع: ترس از نداشتنِ کافی
    11. خودخواهی ضمنیِ چنگ زدن
    12. غلبه بر ترس و خودمحوری
    13. چرا ما انتخاب می‌کنیم که ببخشیم یا ندهیم؟
    14. تبدیل سخاوت به یک عادت
  4. مدیریت و توکل به خدا
    1. استفاده از آموزه‌های الهی برای مدیریت امور مالی
    2. نظارت - نماد فداکاری
    3. از یک مباشر مسئول چه انتظاری می‌رود؟
    4. پرهیز از لذت‌های دنیوی
    5. راه‌هایی برای تبدیل شدن به یک مباشر مسئولیت‌پذیر
    6. اعتماد به سخاوت خداوند - کلید طلایی برای رسیدن به رضایت از خود
    7. دست از دنبال کردن پاداش‌های دنیوی بردارید
    8. حس کاذب امنیت ثروت
    9. کشف رضایت و اعتماد به عنایت الهی برای آسان کردن همه سختی‌ها
    10. خوشبختی در سخاوت
  5. زندگی سخاوتمندانه
    1. خدمت به دیگران با صرف وقت، استعداد و منابع
    2. چگونه سخاوت، ایمان شما را منعکس می‌کند
    3. چرا وقت گذاشتن برای دیگران هدیه‌ای ارزشمند است؟
    4. استفاده از استعدادهایمان برای کار خدا
    5. اشتراک منابع - ویژگی درخشان یک روح مهربان
    6. پاداش کمک به نیازمندان
    7. داشتن قلبی بخشنده
    8. چگونه سخاوت به راهی برای رشد معنوی تبدیل می‌شود
    9. گام‌های عملی برای پرورش قلبی سخاوتمند
    10. طرز فکر دلسوزانه را در خود پرورش دهید
    11. از برنامه روزانه خود زمانی را جدا کنید
    12. با کلمات خود مهربان باشید
    13. آنچه را که به وفور دارید به اشتراک بگذارید
    14. با بخشش خود مهربان باشید
    15. برای همه دعا کنید
    16. در عوض انتظار هیچ چیز نداشته باشید

مقدمه

همه از نداشتنِ کافی می‌ترسند. چه ثروت باشد، چه زمان یا هر نوع منبع دیگری، این نگرانی منجر به طرز فکر کمبود می‌شود. همچنین حرص و طمع را تقویت می‌کند که به نوبه خود منجر به احتکار و عدم تمایل به سخاوتمندی نسبت به دیگران می‌شود. با این حال، کتاب مقدس دیدگاه متفاوتی از فراوانی، اعتماد و مدیریت به ما می‌دهد.

خداوند کسی است که ما را حفظ و روزی می‌دهد، بنابراین ما باید با دستانی کاملاً باز زندگی کنیم، نه با مشت‌های بسته. وقتی درک کنیم که همه چیز از جانب خداوند می‌آید، سخاوت دیگر یک ریسک نیست، بلکه یک عمل شادمانه ایمانی است. به جای اینکه در بند ترس از کمبود منابع باشیم، دعوت به بخشش آزادانه در جایی که نیاز وجود دارد، به واقعیتی تبدیل می‌شود که با اعتماد به منابع بی‌پایان خداوند متعال پشتیبانی می‌شود.

این آموزش به بررسی این موضوع خواهد پرداخت که چگونه خدا، پول و سایر دارایی‌ها بر نمایش سخاوت یا فقدان آن در ما تأثیر می‌گذارند. آیا ما از کمبودها می‌ترسیم یا با خوش‌بینی سرشار و لذت‌بخش زندگی می‌کنیم؟ بیایید روی تمرین سخاوت الهی، همانطور که در کتاب مقدس شرح داده شده است، کار کنیم.

درک سخاوت

سخاوت، رویکرد ما را نسبت به غرور و خودمحوری تعیین می‌کند. نحوه برخورد ما با افراط و تفریط، برای سلامت معنوی، پیوند ما با خالق و همچنین ظرفیت ما برای مراقبت و کمک به دیگران بسیار مهم است. در آموزه‌های مسیحی، سخاوت ریشه عمیقی در وجود و عشق خداوند دارد، در حالی که طمع به عنوان یک انگیزه فردگرایانه تلقی می‌شود که ما را از معنویت دور می‌کند.

تعریف هر دو از دیدگاه کتاب مقدس

کتاب مقدس اهمیت سخاوت را نشان می‌دهد دوم قرنتیان ۹:۶-۷، پولس می‌گوید: «هر که با بخل بکارد، با بخل نیز درو خواهد کرد، و هر که با سخاوت بکارد، با سخاوت نیز درو خواهد کرد. هر یک از شما باید آنچه را که در دل تصمیم گرفته‌اید، بدهید، نه با اکراه یا اجبار، زیرا خداوند بخشنده شاد را دوست دارد.»

طبق کتاب مقدس، سخاوت فقط به بخشش پول محدود نمی‌شود؛ بلکه بازتابی از عشق و اعتماد ما به خداست. این به معنای زندگی با آغوش باز و باور به این است که هر چه داریم متعلق به خداست.

همانطور که خالق ما سخاوتمندانه می‌بخشد، ما نیز فراخوانده شده‌ایم که ببخشیم - چه از طریق وقت، منابع، تشویق یا حمایت مالی.

برعکس، حرص و طمع نمایانگر آرزویی تسخیرناپذیر برای زیاده‌روی است. این یک اشتهای بی‌پایان است که خود را بالاتر از هر چیز دیگری قرار می‌دهد. لوقا ۱۲:۱۵ هشدار می‌دهد: «مراقب باشید! از انواع طمع برحذر باشید؛ زندگی در فراوانی دارایی خلاصه نمی‌شود.»

حرص و طمع باعث می‌شود احساس کنیم به چیزهای بیشتری نیاز داریم و همیشه در حال از دست دادن آنها هستیم. این منجر به دارایی‌های مالی بیش از حد و توجه کمتر به خدا می‌شود. بنابراین، خودخواهی، خواسته‌های سیری‌ناپذیر را تقویت می‌کند و باعث می‌شود احساس کنید از دیگران برتر هستید. کتاب مقدس همیشه در مورد حرص و طمع به ما هشدار می‌دهد زیرا باعث می‌شود به جای توکل به خدا، فقط روی پول و چیزهای مادی تمرکز کنیم. (کولسیان ۳:۵).

سخاوت داشتن: توکل به خدا

سخاوت یعنی تمام دارایی خود را به خدا بدهید و آنها را به او بسپارید.

وقتی خیرخواه هستیم، اعلام می‌کنیم که خدا روزی‌رسان ماست، بنابراین، علاوه بر این اعلام می‌کنیم که او تک تک نیازهای ما را برآورده خواهد کرد. همانطور که در فیلیپیان ۴:۱۹ که «خدا تمام نیازهای شما را بر اساس ثروت جلال خود در مسیح عیسی رفع خواهد کرد.

حرص و طمع ما را فریب می‌دهد و باعث می‌شود فکر کنیم آنچه داریم هرگز کافی نیست و به جای تقویت اعتمادمان به خدا، به دنبال ثروت باشیم. این ما را خودخواه، ناراضی و حق به جانب می‌کند.

حرص و طمع هرگز انسان را راضی نمی‌کند، زیرا باعث می‌شود که انسان خستگی‌ناپذیر به دنبال بیشتر باشد. حرص و طمع منجر به حسادت و مقایسه می‌شود و قلب انسان را نسبت به نیازمندان سرد می‌کند. حتی بدتر از آن، مانع از آن می‌شود که دیگران از شادی بخشش و توکل به مشیت الهی قدردانی کنند.

آموزه‌های عیسی در مورد سخاوت

عیسی اغلب در مورد پول صحبت می‌کرد و از آن به عنوان دریچه‌ای برای آشکار کردن قلب استفاده می‌کرد - طمع را محکوم می‌کرد و شاگردانش را به سخاوت نسبت به نیازمندان فرا می‌خواند. در مرقس فصل ۱۰، آیات ۱۷ تا ۲۷، حاکم جوان ثروتمند از عیسی در مورد به دست آوردن حیات جاودان می‌پرسد. حتی پس از پیروی از تمام احکام، عیسی به او می‌گوید...

«برو، هر چه داری بفروش و به فقرا بده، که در آسمان گنج خواهی داشت. سپس بیا و مرا پیروی کن.» (مرقس ۱۰:۲۱)

این داستان به ما می‌آموزد که بخشش فقط یک عمل نیست؛ بلکه نشان دهنده‌ی نیت قلبی پشت آن است. عیسی صرفاً از حاکم جوان ثروتمند نمی‌خواست که تمام دارایی‌هایش را بفروشد؛ او در پی تغییر قلبی در فرد بود تا به خداوند کاملاً اعتماد کند. بخشش عملی است که در آن نیازهای دیگران را بالاتر از نیازهای خود در نظر می‌گیریم و در عین حال به دارایی‌هایمان توجه کمی داریم. حاکم جوان ثروتمند در تصمیم خود برای پیروی از عیسی دچار مشکل شد زیرا ثروتش قدرتمندتر از تمایلش به تسلیم شدن در برابر ایمان بود. سخاوت در این آشکار می‌شود که ما در پرتو ارزش والای پادشاهی خدا، چقدر دارایی‌های خود را سهل‌انگارانه در دست می‌گیریم.

مرد جوان با ناراحتی آنجا را ترک کرد زیرا نمی‌توانست از ثروتش دست بکشد. سپس عیسی اعلام کرد:

«چه دشوار است که ثروتمندان وارد پادشاهی خدا شوند!» (مرقس ۱۰:۲۳)

مسیح نمی‌گوید که داشتن پول بد است. در عوض، او توضیح می‌دهد که چگونه ثروت می‌تواند به راحتی به بتی تبدیل شود که محبت ما را به خود جلب می‌کند. خدا خود ثروت را محکوم نمی‌کند؛ مشکل زمانی ایجاد می‌شود که عشق ما به ثروت از عشق ما به او پیشی می‌گیرد (اول تیموتائوس ۶:۱۰).

مرقس ۱۲ به ما می‌گوید که سخاوت به این معنی نیست که چقدر می‌بخشیم، بلکه به این معنی است که چه انگیزه‌ای پشت آن بوده است. خدا می‌خواهد ما بدون انتظار بازگشت و با توکل به او و نه دیگران، ببخشیم.

«به راستی به شما می‌گویم، این بیوه‌زن فقیر بیش از همهٔ دیگران به خزانهٔ خدا پول داده است. همهٔ آنها از دارایی خود پول دادند؛ اما او با وجود فقرش، همهٔ دارایی‌اش را داد - تمام دارایی‌اش را که برای امرار معاش لازم داشت.» (مرقس ۱۲:۴۳-۴۴)

برکات سخاوت

آیه کلیدی: لوقا ۱۲:۱۵

«مراقب باشید! از انواع طمع برحذر باشید؛ زندگی در فراوانی دارایی خلاصه نمی‌شود.»

داستان دو سبک زندگی

دو نفر را تصور کنید. یکی دائماً به دنبال پول بیشتر، موفقیت بیشتر و کالاهای بیشتر است، اما همچنان همیشه احساس پوچی درونی می‌کند. هر چیزی که دارند هرگز کافی نیست. آنها با این باور ساده‌لوحانه و خوش‌بینانه که خوشبختی از سود مادی ناشی می‌شود، چیزهای غیرضروری را احتکار می‌کنند.

حالا کسی را تصور کنید که به وضوح متفاوت است. این شخص نه تنها پول خود، بلکه مهربانی، زمان و عشق خود را نیز آزادانه می‌بخشد. آنها شادی عمیقی دارند زیرا زندگی را به عنوان وسیله‌ای برای برکت دادن به دیگران به جای خدمت به خود انتخاب می‌کنند. این دو نوع طرز فکر متضاد، دنیایی از تفاوت را به وجود می‌آورند. در زندگی، هم طمع و هم سخاوت وجود دارند که گاهی اوقات به عنوان «دو سر طیف» از آنها یاد می‌شود.

در لوقا ۱۲:۱۵، عیسی می‌گوید: «...مراقب باش! از انواع طمع برحذر باش؛ زندگی در فراوانی دارایی خلاصه نمی‌شود.«با این سخن، او ما را از غرق شدن در جستجوی بیشتر برحذر می‌دارد و در عوض ما را به زندگی سخاوتمندانه و مراقبت از دیگران فرا می‌خواند. بنابراین، چگونه می‌توان طمع را دسته‌بندی کرد و معنای واقعی سخاوت و برکات نهفته در آن را درک کرد؟ بیایید به سمت پاسخ برویم.

چرا هرگز کافی نیست

حرص و طمع به معنای خواستن پول نیست، اما زمانی حریص تلقی می‌شود که فرد خواهان دارایی، شهرت و قدرت بیشتر و بیشتر باشد. او با این ذهنیت زندگی می‌کند که هرگز به اندازه کافی نخواهد داشت.

کتاب مقدس دائماً در مورد طمع به ما هشدار می‌دهد:

  • «زیرا عشق به پول ریشه همه بدی‌هاست.» (اول تیموتائوس ۶:۱۰)
  • «هر که پول را دوست دارد، هرگز سیر نمی‌شود؛ هر که ثروت را دوست دارد، هرگز از درآمد خود راضی نیست.» (جامعه ۵:۱۰)
  • «گنج‌ها را برای خود بر روی زمین ذخیره نکنید... بلکه گنج‌ها را در آسمان برای خود ذخیره کنید.» (متی ۶: ۱۹-۲۰)

چرا طمع خطرناک است؟

  1. این ما را خودخواه می‌کند. افراد حریص خودشان را در اولویت قرار می‌دهند و کمتر به دیگران اهمیت می‌دهند.
  2. این منجر به استرس و نگرانی می‌شود. ترس از دست دادن ثروت می‌تواند ذهن فرد را درگیر کند.
  3. این یک حس امنیت کاذب ایجاد می‌کند. مردم به جای خدا به پول اعتماد دارند.
  4. به روابط آسیب می‌رساند. حرص و طمع می‌تواند منجر به بی‌صداقتی، غیرقابل اعتماد بودن و انزوای فرد شود.
  5. این باعث می‌شود حواستان از چیزهای مهم پرت شود. افراد حریص به جای تمرکز روی ایمان، خانواده و عشق، دنبال چیزهای موقتی می‌روند.

آرزو هرگز از رشد باز نمی‌ماند، مهم نیست که فرد چقدر داشته باشد. داشتن چیزهای فراوان، فرد حریصی را که آرزوی ثروت بی‌پایان دارد، راضی نمی‌کند. زندگی با طمع هرگز از جستجو باز نمی‌ماند و این چرخه تمام انرژی شما را تحلیل می‌برد.

فایده‌ی بخشش پول فراتر از ارزش ظاهری آن است

کسی که سخاوت نشان می‌دهد، تمام وجودش می‌شود. چیزی که بیش از همه اهمیت دارد، تمایل ما به استفاده صحیح از منابع، زمان و محبتمان است. باید به خدا اعتماد کنید تا از شما حمایت کند، پس دارایی‌ها را بیش از حد سخت نگیرید.

کتاب مقدس وعده‌های زیادی به کسانی که سخاوتمند بودن را انتخاب می‌کنند، می‌دهد.

«شخص سخاوتمند کامیاب خواهد شد؛ هر که دیگران را سیراب کند، خود نیز سیراب خواهد شد.» (امثال ۱۱:۲۵)

نعمت‌های سخاوت

  1. این شادی می‌آورد. بخشش به طور طبیعی قلب شما را تسکین می‌دهد و به شما اجازه می‌دهد احساس خوبی داشته باشید.
  2. این باعث ایجاد روابط قوی می‌شود. افراد سخاوتمند دوستی‌های واقعی را جذب می‌کنند.
  3. این به ما اعتماد به خدا را می‌آموزد. وقتی می‌بخشیم، به جای منابع خودمان، به رزق و روزی خدا تکیه می‌کنیم.
  4. این به ثروت واقعی منجر می‌شود. نه فقط ثروت مالی، بلکه یک زندگی غنی، کامل و پر از هدف.
  5. این بر دیگران تأثیر می‌گذارد. سخاوت ما زندگی ما را از نظر معنوی و عاطفی تغییر می‌دهد.

سخاوتمند بودن در مورد دارایی‌هایتان به معنای زندگی بدون دارایی نیست - بلکه به معنای استفاده از آنچه دارید برای جلال دادن خدا و برکت دادن به دیگران است. حرص و طمع و سخاوت در همه جای جامعه مدرن ما وجود دارد. حرص و طمع در دنیای امروز:

  • افرادی که برای پیشرفت در شغل خود، دیگران را زیر پا می‌گذارند.
  • کسب‌وکارها سود را بالاتر از صداقت و انصاف قرار می‌دهند.
  • افراد ثروتمند از کمک به نیازمندان خودداری می‌کنند.
  • خانواده‌هایی که به جای حمایت از یکدیگر، سر پول دعوا می‌کنند.

سخاوت در دنیای امروز:

  • افرادی که به خیریه‌ها، کلیساها و نیازمندان کمک می‌کنند.
  • غریبه‌ها در مواقع بحرانی به یکدیگر کمک می‌کنند.
  • Parents teaching their children to share and serve.
  • Churches help their communities by performing friendly acts.

Greed fractures communities and breeds harm, but generosity reflects the heart of God—bringing people together and extending His blessing to others.

چگونه از حرص و طمع به سخاوت تغییر جهت دهیم

Facing greed challenges does not mean we need to feel ashamed because we can ask God to assist us in giving more generously. Here are a few ways to start:

  1. You Should Recognize That Everything in Life Belongs to God

God gave us what we have for us to maintain it temporarily. Our hands stay open when we recognize God owns our money and possessions.

  1. Be Thankful for What You Have

Feeling we do not possess sufficient resources triggers greed within us. Gratitude shows us that we have already received everything. Express appreciation to God each day for His gifts.

  1. Start Giving—Even in Small Ways

Begin your giving with easy actions like purchasing a coffee for others or giving minimal amounts. Volunteer whenever possible, too. As we release our resources regularly, giving feels easier to accomplish.

  1. Trust That God Will Provide

Our fear of lacking resources stops us from reaching our goals, yet God ensures our supply.

  1. Search for Opportunities Every Day to Make Others Happy

Your generosity does not have to depend on cash because opportunities for good deeds come in many forms. Each day explore ways to bless others through action and words.

Discussion: How Do We See Generosity in Today’s World?

  1. When giving, have you ever felt a deep sense of happiness? What was that like?
  2. Why did Jesus speak so frequently about money and generosity? What methods can we use to help the next generation become generous in their giving?

Our lives become unforgettable when we demonstrate our love through service and generous giving.

Our giving actions reveal what we believe about God’s nature. Trust God in giving, and he will provide us with freedom, happiness, and contentment. This week, ask yourself how your choices impact people by feeding a generous heart or protecting a fearful one. And what actions can you take today to show generosity like God?

Our most significant life path comes from giving to others while trusting God while sharing God’s blessings.

قلب پشت بخشش

انفاق به عنوان یک عمل عبادی و اطاعتی

Key Scripture: Matthew 6:19-21

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

انفاق چه ربطی به عبادت دارد؟

Most people think worship is singing at church or praying. Did you know that giving is also an act of worship? Giving isn’t solely financial. It begins with an active faith in God, love for Him, and prioritization of Him in our lives. Remember, as Jesus said, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:21). This quotation reminds us that our spending reveals what we truly value. Then, some are so protective of their wealth that they fear ever letting go of it. This explains why money is valued more than God. However, in giving freely, we reveal that our trust lies with Him, not our available funds.

چرا برای عبادت هزینه می‌کنیم؟

God does not necessitate financial assistance—He, undoubtedly, owns everything. Some individuals think that God requests us to give as if He depended on us for money.

The reason He calls us to give is for our benefit, not His. Giving helps us turn over a new leaf from greed and selfishness. It becomes easier to trust in God for all your needs. We bless others and show God’s love by giving without expecting in return.

Giving comes from the heart, an act of obedience, serving as an opportunity to draw closer to God while keeping our fists open rather than closed.

رابطه بین بخشش و اطاعت

Obedience can pose a challenge, especially in regard to financial matters. I recall working for an hourly wage, thinking, “I worked hard for this money,” and wanting to keep it all for myself. Little did I realize, every single thing I own is a gift from God.

The Bible reveals the many different ways that God’s people can act out His command to be generous.

For example, In the Old Testament, God instructed the Israelites to set aside the first ten percent of their income as a form of honoring and supporting Him (Malachi 3:10). When Jesus came in the New Testament, he shifted focus away from a rigid 10 percent and instead told the people to give out of their hearts.

در Mark 12:41-44, Jesus commends the widow who, out of all her money, decided to donate two small coins. Her gift, although small, was sacrificial and that has the greatest value. It was not the amount she gave, but the sacrificial heart behind it, that Jesus commended.

Let’s be honest—giving can feel frightening, especially when we wonder, ‘What if I don’t have enough? What if an emergency arises?’ These are valid concerns. Yet Scripture reassures us that when we prioritize God and His Kingdom, He faithfully provides for our needs. In Matthew 6:31–33, Jesus tells us not to worry about what we will eat, drink, or wear. Instead, He calls us to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and assures us that all these needs will be provided. Whenever we bless others, we say, God, I trust You more than my income.” I have faith that You will meet my needs.” And God is eternally loyal.

بخشیدن چیزی بیش از پول است

The only thing that comes to mind when people hear the word ‘giving’ is the money they donate or the funds they provide to a particular church. But generosity is so much more than that.

We can give in many ways:

زمان: To serve others, to do volunteer work, and to assist the needy.

Encouragement: Helping people grow by offering kind words and support.

Resources: Providing food, clothing or anything that can help another person.

Sometimes, it is easy to provide cash. However, providing love, time, and energy is also important; a giving heart will seek opportunities to bless others in every area of life.

برکات خداوند از طریق بخشش

God never asks us to give without promising to bless us in return. But here is the thing— we do not give just because we want something back. We give as a token of our love for God and whatever blessings come later are just an extra.

دوم قرنتیان ۹:۶-۷ says: “Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

When we give cheerfully:

  • God provides for our needs. He knows what we need before we even ask.
  • We experience joy. Helping others is incredibly satisfying.
  • We expand our spiritual life. Giving makes us depend on God more, which in turn helps us and stretches our faith.
  • We create an everlasting difference. Our generosity goes a long way in serving those in need and spreading the gospel.
  • Giving is not losing in any way, it is about enriching our relationship with God, and gaining a true sense of direction in life.

چه چیزی ما را از بخشیدن باز می‌دارد؟

Even when we want to give, fears and doubts often hold us back—whether it’s the fear of not having enough, or the tendency to wait until we feel more financially secure.

Giving when you have extra does not mean giving. But giving regardless of your situation is a true act of giving. If we are always waiting to have enough, we may never start. But when we give first and trust that God will provide, that is where His faithfulness shows. It is not just about giving, the goal is to make giving a custom, something natural in our journey through life with God.

بخشیدن به عنوان فداکاری

Giving comes down to trust and worship. By giving we say, “God, You are more important to me than whatever I own.”

By giving, we are investing in things that money, possessions, and success cannot overshadow as they fade away in the future. A generous heart always leaves behind an eternal impact.

So, the question is: What or where do you treasure?

This week open yourself up to more powerful acts of generosity. Let them be joyous acts of worship to God, like serving, or giving a helping hand to someone in need. After all, the treasures of considerable worth are not those that we keep to ourselves, but the ones we share with others.

غلبه بر ترس و خودخواهی در بخشش مالی و شخصی

On the surface, giving seems simple— all one needs to do is hand over what they have. But, it isn’t that simple in practice. Sometimes, we come across a situation where it seems like we should be generous, but self-doubt often gets in the way. Am I giving too much? Can someone be too generous? What if my kindness is taken advantage of? These are real questions that often surface when we consider giving. But underneath many of these concerns lie two common obstacles: fear and self-centeredness

Fear tells us, “If you give, you might suffer lack.” Selfishness whispers, “You worked hard for this—it’s yours.”

The Bible often challenges our natural instincts and assumptions, especially regarding money and generosity. God calls us to give without fear because He is our provider. When we give, He promises to take care of our other needs.

So, what is keeping us stuck? Let’s discuss the obstacles that are holding us back and how best to overcome them.

مانع: ترس از نداشتنِ کافی

Money tends to be one of the largest sources of worry for people. Bills, unexpected payments, and day to day expenses can make everything feel tight and make us not want to spend anything at all.

Thinking this way is easy: I can start giving, but only once I have more to spare. The sad reality is if we continue to wait, we will never end up giving at all.

Jesus challenges this mindset in Matthew 6:25-26, where He says: “Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear… Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.”

God is telling us to trust Him and that He will take care of us. If we refuse Him money, it is like feeling He cannot do it. However, whenever we choose faith over fear and give, we imply that our finances are not in control but God.

خودخواهی ضمنیِ چنگ زدن

We can be honest – at times, we may just not feel like giving. Our own ambitions, wants and needs are personal—we have put in all the hard work to get all that. Thus, it feels like “others may give—I’ll look after myself.”

This mindset is spiritually dangerous because it places confidence in self rather than in God, our true provider. It teaches that security comes from riches instead of its original source which is Jehovah.

Jesus advises against this behavior in Luke 12:16-21 when he shares a story about a rich man who saved a lot of money for himself but never thought about helping others with it. The rich man believed his wealth guaranteed him eternal life until God said, “You fool! This very night شما life will be demanded from you.”

The lesson? Hoarding wealth does not lead to true security. Trusting God does.

غلبه بر ترس و خودمحوری

We cannot live generously until we learn to release fear, selfishness, and control.

How do we go about letting all those go?

First, we remember that God is our provider. If we genuinely believe that, there won’t be fear in giving.

Second, giving needs to be practiced despite any discomfort. The more generous we are, the easier it becomes. And third, we need a change in mindset. Rather than, “How will this impact me?”, we need to consider “How can I be a blessing?”

چرا ما انتخاب می‌کنیم که ببخشیم یا ندهیم؟

Everyone has different reasons for giving—or for holding back. Some give because they feel it’s their duty. Some people decide to help others because they really want to make a change. Others are afraid to give, while others simply choose not to do so.

تبدیل سخاوت به یک عادت

If you want to overcome fear and selfishness in giving, start small.

Give something—anything—this week. It could be any amount of money, any duration of time, or even a kind word; regardless, try working towards living with greater generosity.

Set aside some time for prayer and ask God to give you greater reasons to trust Him. Request that He provides you with chances to bless someone. And when the opportunity arises, give selflessly and without hesitation.

Because generosity is entitled to so much more than just what we offer; it also encapsulates the people we place our faith in.

Discussion: What Motivates Us to Give or Not Give?

  1. What fears prevent us from giving?
  2. How do we change our mindset from selfishness to generosity?
  3. Have you ever experienced joy from giving?
  4. How do we teach the new generation to trust in God with all they have?

Because of the Fall, fear and selfishness are natural to our sinful flesh. But through the transforming work of the Holy Spirit, God cultivates faith and generosity in us—virtues that free us from bondage to self and lead us into joyful obedience.” This week, challenge yourself to release something you have been holding onto. Trust God with what you have. Give with joy, no hesitation. Pick generosity, and watch how God changes your life.

مدیریت و توکل به خدا

استفاده از آموزه‌های الهی برای مدیریت امور مالی

Key Scripture: Proverbs 3:9-10

“Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the first fruits of all your crops; then your barns will be filled to overflowing, and your vats will brim over with new wine.” 

Stewardship is more than just managing what you have. It all started with recognizing that everything provided to me was a gift from God. A firm believer in God’s word will trust the Almighty in providing more than what they gave to others. However, in this process, many start to act as if they are the ones solely responsible for their provision. We soon forget that God has commanded us to live freely.

Generosity requires faith, and that in itself makes it an extraordinary act. The Scripture encourages us to think differently: surrendering what we have is not a loss, but an act of faith that opens the door to God’s abundant provision and blessing.

نظارت - نماد فداکاری

Managing our resources carefully is an economic responsibility. Stewardship is not just a financial term; it is a biblical principle that shapes how we manage all of God’s gifts.

It makes us realize that our worldly possessions belong to God. Our money, skills, and even the opportunities provided to us are all divine gifts. Stewardship provides a new lease on life as this mindset allows us to observe things with a new perspective. Instead of being over-possessive by our wealth and worldly possessions, we turn toward God as the provider.

“The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it.” (Psalms 24:1)

Accepting this fact makes managing wealth easier. God is the owner of all things, so our responsibilities are easy to understand. We are called to faithfully manage what God has entrusted to us.. Instead of behaving as owners, we must act like faithful and affectionate managers.

از یک مباشر مسئول چه انتظاری می‌رود؟

Stewardship is not simply about overseeing finances. It is about treating others with kindness and respect while being generous. This is one of the ways to showcase our belief in God being the one true provider. In 2 Corinthians 9:6, He reminds us: “Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously.

Putting God first when dealing with money is what makes generosity real. It is not dealing with what remains of finances but actively pouring into his Kingdom. Supporting ministries, giving to the needy, and offering assistance to those who need it are traits and attitudes of individuals who are not consumed with material wealth.

پرهیز از لذت‌های دنیوی

Worldly possessions are tempting, and they can easily make one obsess over having more money, purchasing the latest devices, or even buying a bigger house.

Jesus warns us about this. He says,

“Then he said to them, Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions. (Luke 12:15)

As we prioritize gaining wealth, we fear losing money. Money comes and goes, but our actions will forever have an impact. Rather than thinking about becoming wealthier, we should be focusing on setting an example for others by following God’s teachings and helping others.

راه‌هایی برای تبدیل شدن به یک مباشر مسئولیت‌پذیر

It is crucial to plan ahead for finances. Be proactive about how you spend, save, and give your money.

  • Spend Less Than You Earn: Do not go into needless debt. Proverbs 22:7 warns us, “The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender.” Therefore, make wise decisions and do not go beyond the means that God has provided for you.
  • Purposeful Savings: While preparing for the future is a good idea, it is not ideal to accumulate wealth out of anxiety. Proverbs 21:20 states, “The wise store up choice food and olive oil but fools gulp theirs down"
  • Be Generous: Use your finances, resources, and time to bless others. 2 Corinthians 9:7 states, “Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
  • Don’t Trust Money, Trust in God: One true security is not in the amount of money they have in the bank, but rather found in God. 1 Timothy 6:17 says, “Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.

Stewardship is not about how much we have; it is about how much we have been blessed with and how well we manage His divine favors. It is about having faith that God will take care of our needs while using our resources for the advancement of His Kingdom. God says:

"Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, 24 since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.” (Colossians 3:23-24).

Stewardship is an act of worship. It’s a physical expression of our trust in, honor of, and recognition of God as the owner of everything we possess. When we practice wisdom and faith in resource management, we not only experience spiritual enlightenment.

Believing that God will always provide for us and not focusing on increasing wealth or pursuing worldly desires is a powerful spiritual journey in our outlook on life. In a world where success is still measured by how much one has, adopting this type of perspective needs faith and a shift in values.

اعتماد به سخاوت خداوند - کلید طلایی برای رسیدن به رضایت از خود

We are living in a world where success is associated with income and wealth. This could easily lead people to question God’s promise of providing for the people.

دست از دنبال کردن پاداش‌های دنیوی بردارید

The Almighty repeatedly urges His people in the Bible to trust Him in rewarding them for being stewards instead of pursuing worldly gains, and real security is not in having things but in the Lord’s promise.

One of the most recognized verses about this is Matthew 6:25-26 where Jesus states: “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?”

This depicts the caring nature of God, whom we worship. If He feeds even the birds, then just imagine how much more He will do for us as His children.

We can be tempted to trust in wealth rather than entirely relying on God when there is a lack of resources. Although, the Bible makes it clear that provision from God will be more than enough and those who put their faith in Him will have their needs taken care of.

حس کاذب امنیت ثروت

A lot of people think that once a person achieves financial security, their life is completely free of worries. On the contrary, the Bible warns us about trusting wealth too much.

Paul writes in 1 Timothy 6:9-10, “Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.

This passage makes an important point: There is nothing wrong with having money, but money and riches should never be loved because they transform us into something we don’t want to become. When a person’s sole aim is to collect wealth, they risk losing their integrity, their relationship with God, their faith, and so much more.

Jesus has warned us about making money our master. In Matthew 6:19-21, He says: “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Jesus urges us to pursue heavenly rewards instead of worldly riches. While physical things can be destroyed, stolen, or lost, what we choose to invest in when it comes to God’s Kingdom will always stand.

کشف رضایت و اعتماد به عنایت الهی برای آسان کردن همه سختی‌ها

Instead of pursuing wealth like most people, followers of Christ should strive towards trust in God and fostering a sense of contentment.

Paul touches on this in Philippians 4:11-12 when he wrote: “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.

One can say that satisfaction is a state of mind in which individuals lack ambition and a willingness to work hard or exert effort. However, the realization that God alone is the provider instills feelings of acceptance. If a follower pins his hopes on God, he will definitely feel at peace, aside from the overwhelming thought of financial prosperity.

خوشبختی در سخاوت

Generosity stems from trusting God and His blessings. Acknowledging that everything belongs to him instills feelings of generosity among us.

God says in 2 Corinthians 9:7-8: “Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.”

Charity stems from faith. It is a recognition that God is the one we should turn to for sustenance. When we give to the needy, we put trust in God that He will keep providing. The Scriptures assures us that God will always look after our needs.

God’s blessings are never-ending, while wealth is not. We are showered with peace, joy, and a better relationship with our Heavenly Father when we turn to God instead of riches. True security does not rely on how much we have but on knowing that God will always be there to provide and look after us.

Discussion: How Does Stewardship Reflect Our Trust In God?

  1. What is refraining us from helping others?
  2. How can you turn a new leaf by donating to the needy?
  3. Have you ever experienced happiness when giving?
  4. How do we encourage good stewardship among youngsters?

You do not have to fear anything if you have strong faith that God is looking after you. Generosity becomes all too real when we help someone, and God rewards us for being a good steward by providing us with more than what we spend. Push yourself to release what you have been holding on to, be it money, time, or resources, and give with joy.

زندگی سخاوتمندانه

خدمت به دیگران با صرف وقت، استعداد و منابع

Key Scripture: Acts 20:35

In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.‘”

When we say generosity, we don’t just mean giving away money. It includes giving your time, skills, and resources to help others. Helping individuals and the community selflessly helps us mirror God’s love, rejuvenates our faith, and helps society altogether.

Serving the people isn’t just a duty; it is a chance to take part in something for the greater good. In the Bible, God calls us to help others not because they have to but because it reflects the goodness in their hearts.

چگونه سخاوت، ایمان شما را منعکس می‌کند

We can all live generously by helping others with their time, talent, and resources. The assumption that generosity is all about financially supporting society is wrong.

We can help others with everything at our disposal, be it listening to a lonely person, providing food to a homeless person, or helping a student study for their exams. You can use the skills provided by God to uplift others in need. These actions depict faith and love, something that is loved by Him.

چرا وقت گذاشتن برای دیگران هدیه‌ای ارزشمند است؟

Being present with someone who is lonely is a precious gift—especially in an age where life moves at a relentless pace and most people are preoccupied with either earning a living or pursuing self-care.

Listening to someone or being present for them requires actual effort. Galatians 6:9-10 reiterates: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.”

You can spend time helping others in many ways. It can be in the form of mentoring youngsters, volunteering in church, assisting a friend, or even going out of your way to talk to someone who is by themselves. With the time in our hands, the efforts we make to help others actually count. Generosity circumvents the negative impact while helping others during that span of time.

استفاده از استعدادهایمان برای کار خدا

God has blessed us with some talents. Some are gifted teachers and musicians, while others are great leaders, handymen, or a strong orator. Serving people with these skills is a way of glorifying God.

1 Peter 4:10 states, “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.

Use something you are good at and observe what you are able to do without too much trouble. If you are great at event management, you can organize church functions. If you are a musician, then help bless people during worship. If you are a gifted carpenter, then use your skill and help people who can’t afford certain repairs done to their homes.

There’s no skill that can’t be used to serve humanity.

Helping others with our talents makes it easier for us to show thanks to God for His blessings. God has given us the ability to do things not for ourselves so that we might help those who are in need of it.

اشتراک منابع - ویژگی درخشان یک روح مهربان

People often mistake generosity for financial assistance. However, generosity entails more thoughtful and considerate actions. This doesn’t mean that we should expect something in return; Instead, it’s realizing that things are different in the eyes of God. The more we trust Him and share what we have, the more He trusts us and provides for us.

Here are some practical ways to interact with personal resources for a more generous touch:

  • Donating food or clothing to the hungry or homeless
  • Assisting local ministries or missionaries during charitable campaigns
  • Offering your home as a shelter
  • Buying groceries and other essential items for financially struggling families.

The notion of financial freedom is caring deeply about others. True generosity seeks to honor God and bless others, not to gain recognition or status.

پاداش کمک به نیازمندان

When we help others with our time, talents, and resources, we are following God’s command and experiencing His blessings. Acts 20:35 states: “In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’

Serving others brings us closer to God. It takes our focus off of ourselves and makes us compassionate towards others in the same way Christ loves us. We begin to see people through His eyes. People who are in need of love, kindness, and care.

The life of Jesus Christ Himself is a shining example of serving others. Mark 10:45 states: “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” If Jesus showed so much humility, how much more do we need to adjust our attitudes to support others?

داشتن قلبی بخشنده

Living generously isn’t a one-time act; it’s a lifestyle. So, how can we become more generous and draw closer to God?

First of all, you should look for opportunities to help the community and be willing to be there for those who need your attention without expecting anything in return, as true generosity is selfless and pure. You can become role models by inspiring family members, friends, and church members. Pray that God would open your eyes to opportunities for service and cultivate a heart that reflects His generosity.

When generosity becomes a lifestyle, we experience joy, purpose, and spiritual empowerment. It does not matter what we have to give, but how far we are willing to go to help others. God accommodates us when we yield to Him, irrespective of the extent.

چگونه سخاوت به راهی برای رشد معنوی تبدیل می‌شود

Being generous is not just about waiting until you have more time, talent, or resources; it is about serving God with what you already have. When you serve others, you reflect the love of Christ to grow spiritually. As 2 Corinthians 9:11 states: "You will be enriched in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God.

Now, we can appreciate lifestyle changes by embracing generosity and giving our time and talent to make a difference. It is not about what we have but what we can give away that shows great love beyond reason. And that is the true essence of living a generous life.

گام‌های عملی برای پرورش قلبی سخاوتمند

When we hear the word “generosity”, we often associate it with money, but it also represents a lifestyle where human beings are kind, selfless, and ever-ready to help those around them. The Bible has commanded followers to practice generosity in every aspect, as God’s love is manifested in the most authentic manner through these actions.

But let’s face it; we at times tend to get so lost in our schedules and responsibilities that we don’t have time to perform acts of kindness. So, how do we develop habits that create harmony in a world that is bent on self-preservation? Let’s try to figure out some of the ways we can help the needy.

طرز فکر دلسوزانه را در خود پرورش دهید

Before action comes a certain attitude that needs to be accepted. Generosity starts off with the heart. If we wish to feel like being generous, chances are it might not happen. The Bible says:

“A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” (Proverbs 11:25)

When we decide to be generous, we are not only helping others but it helps ourselves as well. Generosity allows us to observe the needs of those around us and prepare our hearts to help those in need.

از برنامه روزانه خود زمانی را جدا کنید

Sometimes, the best gift you can provide someone with is your time. In today’s world, time is one of the most valuable things.

From reaching out to a friend in need of company to volunteering at a local shelter to listening intently when someone speaks, these deeds go a long way.

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” (Galatians 6:9-10)

Look for ways to assist those around you. Even less than a minute of simple words of encouragement can change someone’s entire life.

با کلمات خود مهربان باشید

Being generous doesn’t only come from giving gifts; it also comes from generosity with words. Since words have the ability to build or destroy, one can be generous by giving compliments, appreciation, or any type of encouragement.

“Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” (Proverbs 16:24)

So, Next time you go out, think about speaking kindly. Simple, yet powerful words such as “thank you” and “I appreciate you” may be heart-touching for someone.

آنچه را که به وفور دارید به اشتراک بگذارید

One form of generosity is sharing what you have in abundance. This doesn’t mean giving more than you are able to, but acknowledging that everything we have is from God, and we have a responsibility to manage it well.

As Paul reminds us in دوم قرنتیان ۹:۶-۷: “Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. 7 Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

For others, this might mean treating someone to a meal they cannot afford, donating clothes that are no longer used, or funding charity work that helps people.

با بخشش خود مهربان باشید

The most difficult form of generosity is being gracious and forgiving others. We are living in a world where grudges are super common; we have to keep in mind that Jesus had a higher standard for us.

Colossians 3:13 has an instruction for us: “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

Forgiveness allows us to let go of useless bitterness and live freely. Extending grace helps us embody Christ’s wish for us and his generosity as well.

برای همه دعا کنید

Always remember that thinking and saying good things to others is a powerful action to take. And when we pray for people, even those we don’t personally know, we are showing love and compassion to them.

James 5:16 states: “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

Every day, we should make efforts to do good and pray for other people. We could pray to God for friends who are struggling, co-workers, and even strangers that we see on the news. And doing so will greatly impact them.

در عوض انتظار هیچ چیز نداشته باشید

Real generosity comes with no strings attached. In Luke 6:35, Jesus says: “But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.

Jesus urges us to be compassionate to everyone, even those who do not appreciate our kindness. It lets go of the negative thoughts, turning us into selfless individuals.

Discussion: How Can We Nurture A Generous Mindset?

  1. Has there been a time when giving made you deeply happy? What was that experience like?
  2. Why did Jesus focus so much on money and giving?
  3. What steps can be taken in order to make the next generation more generous?

Expressing love through serving and giving is life-changing not only for others but for ourselves. It is the physical reflection of God’s love for His children. Be generous towards others, and He will bless you with liberty, joy, and satisfaction. So why don’t you reflect on your life decisions after figuring out how you can set an example for others?